
Episode #33
Divorce After 50: Your Home, Money, Family, and What Comes Next
What happens when a marriage ends after decades together? For people going through divorce after 50, the questions extend far beyond signing legal documents. Where will you live? Can you afford two households? What happens to the family home? How will retirement change? What happens at holidays, weddings, birthdays, and family gatherings? And how do you make decisions about the future when fear and anger are very real? In this episode of Real Estate Connections, Mary Foerster talks with Kim Korven, a former family lawyer and mediator who now works as a family divorce strategist. Kim practiced law for 25 years, including eight years in family law. After seeing firsthand how adversarial family law can intensify conflict, and then navigating divorce herself, she developed a different approach. Kim encourages people to begin with the life they want to create rather than beginning with the fight. Mary and Kim discuss gray divorce, adult children and grandchildren, financial consequences, housing decisions, mediation, separation agreements, conflict, retirement, and why the traditional legal system may not always be the best place to begin. Kim also shares a deeply personal perspective on her own current separation and the fear that can come with leaving financial security later in life. Her philosophy is not to tell someone whether to stay or leave. It is to help people understand what they want, consider their options, and make clear-eyed decisions about the next chapter. This episode is especially relevant for adults over 50, people contemplating divorce, adult children of divorcing parents, real estate professionals, financial professionals, and anyone helping families navigate major transitions. Guest Bio Kim Korven is a former family lawyer and mediator with 25 years of legal practice, including eight years in family law. She holds an LLB and LLM from the University of Saskatchewan and is a government-recognized family mediator who trained at CDR Associates in Boulder, Colorado. After experiencing divorce herself and seeing the limitations of the traditional adversarial approach, Kim developed a non-adversarial process first for her own family and later built it into The Gentle Way Divorce Consulting Group, which now serves clients across North America. Kim’s TEDx talk explores how a thoughtful approach to divorce can help foster resilience in children. Her work encourages people to approach divorce as a life transition first, identify what they want their future to look like, and make deliberate decisions about family, finances, parenting, and major shared assets such as the home. Guest Links Kim Korven: https://kimkorven.com/ About Kim: https://kimkorven.com/pages/about Send us Fan Mail This episode is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice. Connect with Mary: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mary-foerster-realestate/ https://www.instagram.com/realestateconnectionspod/ Real estate is about more than buying and selling property. It is connected to how we live, build wealth, care for our families, navigate change, and plan for what comes next. On Real Estate Connections , host Mary Foerster brings together trusted professionals, thoughtful conversations, and practical information to help you make more confident decisions about your home, finances, and future. Episodes explore home buying and selling, downsizing, aging in place, multigenerational living, real estate investing, renovations, caregiving, financial planning, and the personal transitions that often accompany a move.

