Episode #42
Navigating Dating in Today's Church with Ryan Hankey
In this episode of Rekindled Faith, Melanie is joined by guest, Ryan Hankey to discuss dating and the Church. This conversation is a honest deep dive into what it is like for singles in the church and how the Body of Christ can support them. Melanie and Ryan discuss some misconceptions, the challenge of lukewarm faith & dating, hook up culture, expectations, commitment and seeking God’s will in the midst of it all. Melanie also brings her own lived experience into the conversation, including the reality of pressure, regret, healing, and what it looks like to build a marriage on faith instead of fantasy. Together, they talk candidly about the damage of hookup culture, pornography, and hidden sin, and why confession, accountability, and godly support can change everything. Ryan also shares how the church can better support singles through resources, discipleship, young adult ministry, and real community, not just advice from a distance. If you’ve ever wondered whether God has forgotten your season, this episode will remind you that singleness is not a holding pattern. It’s a place to grow, serve, and become rooted in Christ. Essential listening if you’re a Christian single, dating intentionally, supporting young adults, or trying to build a relationship that lasts beyond chemistry and convenience. Resources: Fundamentals of Faith https://www.gty.org/fof Men in the Arena (Jim Ramos) https://meninthearena.org/ Kingdon Sexuality https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/ The Union Movement https://www.theunionmovement.com/ The Liberator Podcast https://liberatorpodcast.com/ Connect with Rekindled Faith Instagram https://www.instagram.com/rekindledfaith Connect with Melanie www.melaniebeerda.ca Instagram @Melanie.Beerda hello@melaniebeerda.ca
