
Episode #261
A Daughter’s Trauma After An Officer Assassination
Send us Fan Mail A single phone call can split your life into “before” and “after” and for police families, that split often happens in public. We sit down with Susan Snow, author of The Other Side of the Gun: My Journey from Trauma to Resiliency, to talk about what it meant to lose her father, an LAPD robbery-homicide detective, in a planned assassination on Halloween night in 1985. Susan takes us back to the confusion, the flashing lights, the media swarm, and the gut-punch of feeling invisible as a teenager while everyone focuses on what comes next. From there, we get honest about the long tail of trauma: panic attacks, deep depression, suicidal ideation, and the way grief can lock your body into fight, flight, or freeze for years. Susan also shares a hard lesson about support systems that look good on paper but miss the point in practice, including therapy that isn’t trauma-informed and leaves you believing you’re “fine” when you’re falling apart. We unpack the emotional mask so many people wear and how people pleasing becomes a survival strategy that quietly breaks relationships and self-trust. We also zoom out to the bigger mission of first responder mental health: if agencies want real resilience, they have to support spouses, partners, and kids, not just the badge. Subscribe for the next part of Susan’s story, share this with someone who loves a first responder, and leave a review so more families find the support they deserve. You can reach Susan via her website at https://www.traumatalksbysusansnow.com or on Facebook at: facebook.com/traumatalksbysusansnow She is also on Instagram at: susan_snow1 and Youtube at: Traumatalksbysusansnow DeemedFit: First Responder Owned We are a first responder owned company looking to get first responders in the best mental shape. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show YouTube Channel For The Podcast






