Sex in Real Life with Stacey Herrera

Honest conversations about intimacy, desire, and relationships after 40. Sex in Real Life explores how connection, attraction, bodies, and relationships change in midlife and beyond, without shame or clichés.Instagram: @staceynherreraSubtack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/Website: https://staceyherrera.com/

Sex in Real Life with Stacey Herrera is a society podcast hosted by Stacey Herrera, with 86 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Stacey Herrera hosts Sex in Real Life with Stacey Herrera, a society show with 86 episodes published.

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  Episode #86

  Why Do We Feel Compelled to Make Sex Mean Something More?

  Aug 12, 202616 min

  Humans seem to have a unique relationship with sex. It's often enmeshed with societal expectations, emotionality, and internal stories. In this episode, Stacey explores the tension between our inherent biology and our need to make meaning and our struggles with sex and intimacy. Resources related to this episode: Bonobos, our evolutionary cousins who use sex as a social lubricant Dolphins appear to use sex for social bonding Chimps use sex for hierarchy and play

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  Episode #85

  Why Sex Work Feels a Lot like a Social Service

  Aug 4, 202617 min

  Our views on sex work often reflect the things we try to tuck away. Loneliness. Shame. Desire. In this episode, we're exploring how adult sex work might be a vital social service, providing a judgment-free space for acceptance, unmet needs, and sometimes deep intimacy. ️ Share top suggestions for the show: https://bit.ly/sexirlpod-suggestion-box Subscribe to the Sex IRL Substack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/ Ready to Transform Your Intimate Conversations? Get the free workbook How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes? A guide to having "the talk" without losing your cool (or your dignity). https://staceyherrera.com/herpesbook How to Give Amazing Head: 10 Easy Tips to Blow His Mind https://staceyherrera.com/how-to-give-amazing-head/

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  Episode #84

  They're a Good Person, so Why Aren't You Emotionally Fulfilled?

  Jul 28, 202616 min

  Good people are not necessarily good at relationships. In this episode, Stacey explores the social construct of being a "good person." And how being polite, helpful, and uncruel can bypass the emotional nuance needed for deep relationship nurturing. Resources mentioned: Elizabeth Earnshaw - Therapist: "You can love someone unconditionally and yet find that they can't meet the conditions for maintaining a relationship." All About Love by bell hooks ️ Share top suggestions for the show: https://bit.ly/sexirlpod-suggestion-box Subscribe to the Sex IRL Substack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/ Ready to Transform Your Intimate Conversations? Get the free workbook How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes? A guide to having "the talk" without losing your cool (or your dignity). https://staceyherrera.com/herpesbook How to Give Amazing Head: 10 Easy Tips to Blow His Mind https://staceyherrera.com/how-to-give-amazing-head/

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  Episode #83

  Who's Responsible for the Sex Part of Your Relationship? You? or Them?

  Jul 21, 202615 min

  Being in a relationship often looks like divvying up the life stuff. Maybe they take on the in-the-house chores, and you take on the outside parts. But who's responsible for sex? You? Them? In this episode, Stacey is talking about why sex should be something you maintain together. And how it can feel loaded if that responsibility falls on one person. ️ Share top suggestions for the show: https://bit.ly/sexirlpod-suggestion-box Subscribe to the Sex IRL Substack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/ Ready to Transform Your Intimate Conversations? Get the free workbook How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes? A guide to having "the talk" without losing your cool (or your dignity). https://staceyherrera.com/herpesbook How to Give Amazing Head: 10 Easy Tips to Blow His Mind https://staceyherrera.com/how-to-give-amazing-head/

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  Episode #82

  How You See Your Body Impacts Your Sex Life (Whether You Know It or Not)

  Jul 14, 202613 min

  The relationship you have with your body shapes what you're willing to feel, receive, and experience sexually. This episode explores aging, self-perception, and the shift toward neutrality (and maybe even generosity)—and how a healthier relationship with your body can expand your capacity for pleasure. 🗳️ Share top suggestions for the show: https://bit.ly/sexirlpod-suggestion-box 💌 Subscribe to the Sex IRL Substack: https://www.sexinreallife.com/ Ready to Transform Your Intimate Conversations? Get the free workbook 📖 How Do I Tell Them I Have Herpes? A guide to having "the talk" without losing your cool (or your dignity). https://staceyherrera.com/herpesbook 📖 How to Give Amazing Head: 10 Easy Tips to Blow His Mind https://staceyherrera.com/how-to-give-amazing-head/

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