
Shades of Strong® Podcast | From “Strong Black Woman” to Supported Black Woman
I Said What I Said. Ain’t Going Back and Forth With You
<p >Sometimes support for Black women looks like finally deciding not to keep explaining yourself into emotional exhaustion.</p> <p >In this Support Pause, Shirl explores the emotional cost of constantly going back and forth with people who are committed to misunderstanding you. From family dynamics to friendships, work conversations, and relationships, many Black women have been conditioned to overexplain themselves, defend their boundaries, and stay inside emotionally draining conversations far longer than necessary.</p> <p >Using the familiar lyric “I’m living my best life… ain’t going back and forth with you”, this episode unpacks the deeper truth underneath...

