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Early Trauma Steals Your Voice: How One Woman Took It Back
Send us Fan Mail Trauma doesn’t always show up as a single memory you can point to. Sometimes it shows up as a life that feels “off,” a voice that doesn’t sound like yours, reactions that feel bigger than the moment, and cycles you can’t explain no matter how hard you work on yourself. We sit down with Lease Youmans, author and trauma-informed speaker, to trace how childhood sexual abuse at 12 quietly shaped decades of decisions, coping, and identity, even while she believed she was living authentically. Lease shares the moment everything shifted during a coaching session at age 50, when she realized the real breakthrough wasn’t about finding one more missing piece; it was about facing what she had disconnected from. We talk about dissociation, the need to stay busy to avoid stillness, and how trauma can influence relationships, self-worth, and the deep desire to be seen and valued. She also explains why personal growth can feel like frustration when you’re trying to build a future on an unhealed foundation. From writing her book “Triumphant: A Journey from Trauma to Triumph” to starting therapy and learning to “unmute” her voice, Lease lays out a healing journey rooted in truth and steadiness. She closes by sharing her current work through The Trauma Unit and the Trauma Unit Experience, a trauma-informed healing system designed to stabilize, restore, and rebuild without pressure or retraumatization. Find her work here: HOME | LEASE L. YOUMANS If you resonate with trauma healing, childhood trauma recovery, reclaiming your voice, and becoming your authentic self, this conversation will stay with you. Interested in turning your story into purpose? Visit https://www.jessicastipanovic.com Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find it. Support the show ⭐ Get new episodes + Jessica’s 3-2-1 newsletter: https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/newsletter ⭐ Listen & follow Real Women LIVE: https://www.jessicastipanovic.com/podcast ⭐ Join 14K+ on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/realwomenlive ⭐ Love this episode? Follow the show, leave a review, and share it with one woman who needs to hear this story. Real Women LIVE was formerly Sober Living Stories. If one of these conversations makes you think of a woman in your life, send it to her...




