
Episode #6
Soft Skills For Hard Conversations With Abrasive Leaders with Bonnie Artman Fox
In the Season 2 finale of Soft Skills: Strong Results, I’m joined by Workplace Conflict Expert and Executive Leadership Coach Bonnie Artman Fox to explore strategies for handling difficult workplace interactions. You’re one click away from discovering how to identify abrasive behavior, address it constructively, and foster stronger, more productive relationships within your team. Bonnie and I dive into the roots of abrasive behavior, highlighting how a lack of self-awareness and anxiety can manifest as harsh communication. We provide actionable advice on using soft skills such as emotional intelligence, empathy, and effective communication to navigate these challenging situations. This conversation also focuses on having difficult conversations with team members, emphasizing the balance of compassion and firmness. Bonnie shares practical approaches for offering coaching and support while clearly communicating expectations, helping leaders address problematic behavior without damaging trust. Finally, Bonnie and I discuss strategies for rebuilding trust and repairing relationships after conflict. You’ll walk away with concrete steps for developing self-awareness, empathy, emotional regulation, and constructive feedback skills to create a healthier and more collaborative workplace. Key Takeaways: Abrasive behavior often stems from anxiety and lack of self-awareness rather than intentional malice. Soft skills, including emotional intelligence and effective communication, are essential for workplace success. Addressing difficult behaviors requires courage, structure, and a balance of compassion and firmness. Focusing on behaviors rather than personal attacks helps maintain professionalism during challenging conversations. Rebuilding trust involves consistent, objective feedback and support for change. Practical strategies like self-reflection, empathy, and emotional regulation can transform workplace dynamics and team performance. Pick up my book The Power Skills Portfolio: A Leader's Guide to Soft Skills I'm here to help you master your soft skills and take your communication to the next level! Learn more at CharlieKrebs.com






