
Episode #21
21. Fear Of Intimacy or Intuition?
Is It My Intuition, Or My Fear Of Intimacy? How To Tell β with Raj Lehl Holistic nervous system specialist. The nervous system, dating anxiety, and how to tell intuition from fear Ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same kind of relationship, even when you swore you'd do it differently? Or why your body feels on edge the moment things get closer β even when your head knows better? In this episode, relationship coach for women Naomie Thompson is joined by holistic nervous system specialist Raj Lehl to explore the real, physical side of love. So much of what we chalk up to bad luck in dating, or "just being anxious," is actually your nervous system trying to protect you β based on things your body hasn't let go of yet. If your head and heart are saying yes but something in you says absolutely not, this episode is for you. We cover: How stored trauma shows up in dating β cancelling dates, scanning for red flags, pulling away when it deepens Why self-aware women still repeat the patterns they understand cognitively How to tell the difference between intuition and fear of intimacy Exercising your right to say no β and walk away β without explaining it to anyone, including yourself Why we're drawn to the wrong man because his unavailability feels familiar The airport story: how Raj moved through a big trigger without taking it out on her partner Congruent communication, and how it creates a sanctuary relationship in moments Two tools for hard conversations β walking side by side, and staying in physical contact Why calm is contagious, and how we mirror each other's nervous systems Knowing yourself as the real meaning of being an adored woman Raj shares some free resources, including a panic attack recovery guide and a meditation β links below. Work with Naomie: Get the FREE 9 Aspects of the Adored Woman guide β https://naomiethompson.com/home#freetraining Book a free intro call with Naomie β https://calendly.com/naomiethompsoncoaching/loveplan-call Contact Raj: https://rajlehl.com/ Raj's Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rajlehlhealing/ β Free Panic attack/ Anxiety Recovery Guide β

