The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers Podcast

Hi I'm Jess! Christian Dating Coach and founder of DATEABILITY.Whether you are single or preparing to marry the love of your life, my hope is that this podcast helps you get rid of anxiety about the dating process as we discuss the mindset and skillset of Romantic Intelligence.

The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers Podcast is a society podcast hosted by Jessica Santosa Carlton, with 10 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Jessica Santosa Carlton hosts The DATEABILITY Smart Lovers Podcast, a society show with 10 episodes published.

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  What If You Find Your Soulmate AFTER You're Already Married?

  Jun 11, 202612 min

  What happens if you meet "the love of your life" after you're already married? It's one of the most romanticised ideas in modern culture. Movies celebrate it. Novels glorify it. Love songs idolise it. But what happens when children, covenant, family and responsibility enter the equation? In this episode, Jess explores the life of Roald Dahl and his marriage to actress Patricia Neal, using their story as a springboard to examine a deeper question: Is the idea of a soulmate actually biblical? Or has modern culture elevated personal happiness above faithfulness? Topics discussed: Roald Dahl and Patricia Neal The soulmate myth Attraction after marriage Covenant vs chemistry Children and family systems Christian perspectives on marriage Why "following your heart" may not always lead where you think Referenced in this episode: The Secret World of Roald Dahl podcast by Aaron Tracey. LINK: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-secret-world-of-roald-dahl/id1868436905 If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review and share it with someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations about dating, marriage and faith. Connect with Jess: DATEABILITY Christian Dating & Relationship Coaching #ChristianMarriage #ChristianDating #RoaldDahl #PatriciaNeal #Soulmates #Relationships #Marriage #ChristianPodcast

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  Ep 10. A Too-Fast Courtship Horror Story

  Jan 17, 202527 min

  You’ve been following the Lord for over a decade. You’re mature in your faith, and when you meet someone new, you’re excited . Maybe even thinking, Why wait? I’ve already been waiting 10+ years! But here’s the thing—jumping in too fast can lead to heartbreak or missed red flags. In this episode, I’m sharing excerpts from my e-book, The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook . This is your guide to navigating the early stages of courtship with wisdom and grace, ensuring you’re protecting your heart and honouring God along the way. I’ll be reading three chapters that will completely transform how you think about vulnerability, pacing, and emotional safety in relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re "all in" way too quickly, this is the episode for you. Mentioned in This Episode: Grab your copy of The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook for just $13: Get it here . Follow me on Instagram: @_dateability . Interested in MATCHMAKING ? Fill out my forms: For Women: Matchmaking Form for Women . For Men: Matchmaking Form for Men .

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  Ep 10. A Too-Fast Courtship Horror Story

  Jan 17, 202527 minS0

  <p>You’ve been following the Lord for over a decade. </p> <p>You’re mature in your faith, and when you meet someone new, you’re excited. Maybe even thinking, Why wait? I’ve already been waiting 10+ years!</p> <p>But here’s the thing—jumping in too fast can lead to heartbreak or missed red flags. </p> <p>In this episode, I’m sharing excerpts from my e-book, The Vulnerability Modulation Handbook. </p> <p>This is your guide to navigating the early stages of courtship with wisdom and grace, ensuring you’re protecting your heart and honouring God along the way.<...

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  Ep 9. Why Aren't Men Approaching Women IRL? (feat. Single Man Panel)

  Dec 11, 20241h 39mS0

  <p>MATCHMAKING INTEREST FORMS:</p> <p>MEN click here.</p> <p>WOMEN click here.</p> <p>Available to Australians only, but if you are from outside Aus you are still welcome to fill out the form.</p> <p>It may just take a while to find you a match :)</p> <p><br /></p> <p>Follow me (Jess) on IG: @_dateability </p> <p>Send me a DM with "READY" to ask about coaching </p> <p>-------------------------------------------</p> <p><br /></p> <p>What are men thinking as they look for their dream woman in the modern dating market? </p> <p> </p> <p>Ac...

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  Ep 8. How HEALED do we have to be before meeting our Forever Person? (feat. Licensed Counsellor Sarah Sibi Thomas)

  Sep 4, 20241h 24mS0

  <p>If you are in your late 20s to early 30s, and wanting a come-to-Jesus moment about your dating journey, this episode is for you. </p> <p><br></p> <p>My guest for this podcast episode is Sarah Sibi Thomas, a Christian Counsellor from QLD, Australia who met her husband at age 31. </p> <p> </p> <p>She is the founder of Pure Heart Therapies counselling and family therapy practice and has 2 beautiful little toddlers. </p> <p> </p> <p>We discuss the following in length: </p> <p>Qualities of a Healthy, Healed Man </p> <p>The Importance of Vulnerability, Emotional Maturity and Kin...

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