
Episode #7
He'll Be Dead by Then: A Daughter's Race Against Time — and God's Timing
A year before her husband lost his job, Caroline Crocker felt the Lord tell her to resign from her own position as a tech startup CEO. What followed was a season that looked, from the outside, like everything falling apart: her husband's sudden dismissal from his church position, their house gone along with his salary, their car breaking down, even having to give away their dog. But it was also the season that put Caroline exactly where she needed to be — in her parents' home in Dallas, using her doctorate to fight for her dying, atheist father's medical care and, ultimately, his soul. In this conversation, Caroline shares the word she heard from God on the drive to Dallas — that her father would die, and she would be with him when he did — and how she used her scientific background to push back against doctors, buy her father precious extra months, and plant small, repeated seeds of faith in a man who spent his life believing God couldn't forgive him. She also talks about the moment-by-moment grace she needed just to keep going during that season, and about the books she's since written uncovering her family's remarkable, and at times harrowing, history — including a grandfather who survived Auschwitz. Links mentioned: Website (all of Caroline's books and writing): ramblingruminations.com Book: Unforgivable (her father's story) Book: Brave Face (her mother's WWII childhood in the Netherlands) Book: The Truth Was Different (releasing November — about her grandmother) Timestamps [00:00] Introduction [00:54] A Sabbatical, a Resignation, and "Something New Is Coming" [03:51] Losing the Job and the House [06:58] Called to Dallas to Help Her Parents [07:42] "Your Father Is Going to Die — and You'll Be With Him" [10:41] Using Her Doctorate to Advocate for Her Father's Care [13:13] He'll Be Dead by Then: Racing the Diagnosis [16:02] Praying for an Atheist Father [18:01] Everything Stripped Away — and Moment-by-Moment Grace [20:23] Small Steps of Faith: "When You See Jesus, Say Yes" [22:48] Her Father's Final Days — and Going Home [26:23] Writing Unforgivable and Uncovering Her Grandmother's Story [29:56] Forgive After Auschwitz [31:28] Where to Find Caroline's Books [32:11] Caroline's Takeaway: God Loves More Than You Can Imagine [32:50] Closing Reflection Want to be a guest on The GraceForge Podcast? Send Karen Dittman a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/1733503318442796293a1fecb

