The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane

A happy home doesn't happen by accident, but it can be created with love, intention, and good family habits. If you need encouragement and guidance as a parent and/or spouse, this show is for you! Arlene will help you bridge the gap between your present reality and ideal family. Your host Arlene Pellicane is a speaker and author of several books, including Making Marriage Easier, Screen Kids and Parents Rising. She and her husband James have been married for more than 27 years and have three children. Inside this podcast, you’ll meet some of the kindest and smartest experts when it comes to marriage and parenting. Get ready for fun, Biblical insights, and practical conversations that will change your thinking, give you hope, and spark positive change. Let's do this together!

The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane is a religion podcast hosted by Arlene Pellicane, with 466 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Arlene Pellicane hosts The Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane, a religion show with 466 episodes published.

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  Can't Turn Off Video Games: Dr. Richard Freed on Persuasive Design

  Sep 28, 202636 min

  For many kids (especially boys), life revolves around video games. "Wake me when it's the weekend" is the attitude of many kids who aren't interested in school, responsibility, or family bonding when there are video games to be played.  Child and adolescent psychologist Dr. Richard Freed joins Arlene to explain why video games are so sticky. He breaks down persuasive design, the science tech companies use to keep kids on screens. You'll understand BJ Fogg's behavior formula and how games like Fortnite are built by psychologists and AI to exploit boys' instincts for hunting, fighting, and status. Dr. Freed discusses why boys are falling behind academically and socially, and why family and school connection matter more than peer or online community.  You won't be left helpless against the gaming console. We'll share practical steps to delay the addicting power of smartphones, social media, and video games. Dr. Richard Freed is the author of several books including Better Than Real Life: How Silicon Valley's Secret Science of Persuasive Design is Stealing Childhood.   02:15 – Why girls started self-harming at age 10-11 in the early 2000s 03:56 – Video games as "sophisticated psychological conditioning chambers" 06:12 – BJ Fogg's persuasive design formula: B = MAT (motivation, ability, triggers) 10:19 – Fortnite's lead designer and the "Skinner box" behind the game 13:25 – When limiting a teen's screen time becomes dangerous 20:11 – Debunking the myth that video games build real-world skills 30:06 – The three things kids need most: family, school, physical activity 36:04 – Where to find Dr. Freed and his book, Better Than Real Life Connect with Dr. Richard Freed and grab a copy of Better than Real Life at RichardFreed.com    Push back against persuasive design and read Arlene's new book, The Great Tech Reset: Reclaiming Real Life for Christian Families.   Free while supplies last from Summit Ministries TechResetBook.com   More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to  Arlene's newsletter  "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out  Arlene's BOOKS  including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on  Instagram  and/or  Facebook Watch the podcast on Arlene's  YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media?  Watch the free video ,  Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the  Gabb Wireless phone  for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .

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  Why Nature Teaches What AI Slop Can't with Eryn Lynum

  Sep 21, 202634 min

  If exposed regularly to AI, how will kids tell the difference between the real world and what is artificial?A tech reset is needed - moving from a screen-based childhood to a play-based childhood. Going into nature instead of sitting on a couch.  Author Eryn Lynum knows a lot about the benefits of being in God's creation. She's the host of the Nat Theo podcast, but even her family needed to reestablish limits. She read Arlene's new book, The Great Tech Reset, during a three-week road trip. Lynum describes the family meeting that followed, how her four kids responded, and how nature became the replacement for screen time rather than just a restriction. We'll talk about AI, rest, and Eryn's experience with Addison's disease. Eryn has two new books to help your children embrace the wild outdoors and God's creation: a children's book Where Wonder Leads and the family devotional Made to Marvel .   02:36 – Why the Lynum family needed a tech reset 05:11 – How her four kids reacted to new tech limits 08:16 – Replacing tech with nature instead of just restricting it 10:29 – Nature vs. AI: teaching kids what's real 13:45 – How to start engaging with nature as a family (even in a condo) 20:21 – What "wonder" means in Where Wonder Leads 23:15 – Living with Addison's disease and why rest matters 29:40 – Made to Marvel : the new 52-week family devotional Find out more about Eryn Lynum's ministry and her new books,  Where Wonder Leads and the family devotional Made to Marvel, at https://nattheo.com/ Get Arlene's new book The Great Tech Reset: Reclaiming Real Life for Christian Families for FREE while supplies last from Summit Ministries.  More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to  Arlene's newsletter  "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out  Arlene's BOOKS  including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on  Instagram  and/or  Facebook Watch the podcast on Arlene's  YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media?  Watch the free video ,  Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the  Gabb Wireless phone  for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .

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  What My 19-Year-Old Learned Growing Up Without Social Media with Noelle Pellicane

  Sep 14, 202634 min

  Arlene's children were not allowed to have social media, play video games, or have personal phones or tablets until their senior year of high school. What did the kids think about this??? Noelle (the middle child of three) is here to represent the kids! Was she left out of friend groups at school because she wasn't on social media? Did she struggle with anxiety as a result? Noelle addresses common concerns parents raise, including whether kids need phones to stay connected with friends, whether delaying phone access affects academic performance, and whether it leaves children unprepared once they leave home. She describes how her parents explained their reasoning rather than simply withholding technology, and how that shaped the boundaries she set for herself once she did get a phone. Noelle also discusses her current use of AI as an engineering student at Oral Roberts University, and how her faith shapes how she spends her time. Arlene's new book, The Great Tech Reset: Reclaiming Real Life for Christian Families is available for FREE while supplies last. Request your copy at TechResetBook.com and begin your do-over with screen time.  02:19 — Noelle introduces herself: senior year at Oral Roberts University, mechanical engineering 03:15 — What she actually did as a kid without video games, tablets, or cable 05:21 — Addressing the myth that kids need phones to stay connected with friends 09:05 — The "time pit" and what she avoided seeing online — comparison, body image, bad news 12:33 — Phone use in the classroom and its effect on attention span 16:04 — Why she didn't "go crazy" once she finally got a phone senior year 18:11 — Her deliberate process for delaying social media after getting a phone 22:47 — How going without a phone gave her more freedom, not less 29:19 — Balancing being a "tech optimist" and AI enthusiast with caution about addictive technology   More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: Get Arlene's new book, The Great Tech Reset: Reclaiming Real Life for Christian Families (free while supplies last!)  SUBSCRIBE to  Arlene's newsletter  "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out  Arlene's other BOOKS  including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on  Instagram  and/or  Facebook Watch the podcast on Arlene's  YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media?  Watch the free video ,  Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the  Gabb Wireless phone  for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .

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  Reclaiming Childhood: The Great Tech Reset

  Sep 7, 202635 min

  Technology promises to make life better, boost productivity, connect us, and help us learn. But what does it do to childhood?  Where is the evidence that a screen-based childhood is best for kids?  We all know that sitting still, staring at screens, watching who-knows-what is not good for healthy child development. And it's time for parents to rebel against this tsunami of technology.  Arlene shares the story behind her new book, The Great Tech Reset: Reclaiming Real Life for Christian Families published with Summit Ministries (release date September 29). The most unusual thing about the book? For a limited time, it's free!  Just request your copy at techresetbook.com Arlene will walk you through statistics on rising teen depression, anxiety, and declining literacy tied to screen use, then explain how her family avoided phones, social media, and video games through most of her kids' childhood. She addresses three common parenting fears — that kids need social media to make friends, that limiting tech will make kids hate their parents, and that it's too late to change course — and offers practical steps towards healthier tech use. Plus, she addresses the spiritual ramifications of too much tech.  What if our kids feared God more than they feared losing followers?   00:01 – A heart-to-heart about phones and tablets in the home 00:59 – Announcing The Great Tech Reset , a free print book, order at techresetbook.com 02:02 – The statistics: rising teen depression, anxiety, and declining literacy tied to screens 03:53 – How the book came about: stepping back from the Parents Rising Conference to write with Summit Ministries 08:49 – Lie #1: Kids need social media to make friends 12:41 – Lie #2: Limiting tech will make your kids hate you 18:59 – Lie #3: It's too late to change course 24:42 – A pop quiz for listeners: do you reach for your phone to relax? 27:15 – Closing scripture from Luke 12 and prayer for families   Order Arlene Pellicane's new book, The Great Tech Reset, now! TechResetBook.com More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to  Arlene's newsletter  "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out  Arlene's BOOKS  including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on  Instagram  and/or  Facebook Watch the podcast on Arlene's  YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media?  Watch the free video ,  Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the  Gabb Wireless phone  for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .

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  Trying to Be Happy is Making Kids Miserable with Dr. Jonathan Eckert

  Aug 31, 202631 min

  The pressure to be endlessly happy is leaving the next generation more anxious and isolated than ever.  In his new book, The Happiness Crisis: How Adversity Can Build a Resilient and Joyful Next Generation, Dr. Jonathan Eckert calls for a culture shift that we can begin at home. How do we embrace adversity and see the value of challenges, instead of becoming parents who make everything too easy?  Dr. Eckert explains the biblical connection between joy and struggle, and why removing adversity — "snowplow parenting" — prevents kids from developing resilience. Arlene and Jon work through real-life scenarios, including a child facing bullying and a teen caught using AI to cheat on a school assignment. The conversation closes with practical steps for helping kids rediscover purpose and joy through community and faith. Dr. Jonathan Eckert is a former middle school teacher and basketball coach who worked in the Bush and Obama Department of Education. He has a PhD from Vanderbilt, and currently serves as the Executive Director of the Baylor Center for School Leadership.    02:35  Why the pursuit of happiness backfires 03:29  How phones and comparison fuel kids' unhappiness 04:57  Snowplow parents vs. building "muscles around the backbone" 09:15  Roleplay: what to say when a kid is bullied at school 14:40  Roleplay: when a teen gets caught using AI to cheat 21:18  My teacher story: destructive vs. productive struggle 28:17  The "man in the arena" quote and the ABCs of joy   Connect with Dr. Jonathan Eckert at jonathaneckert.org  or on Linkedin . Grab a copy of Dr. Eckert's book The Happiness Crisis .  More Resources from Arlene Pellicane: SUBSCRIBE to  Arlene's newsletter  "What I'm Learning This Week" and get the checklist, 7 Warning Signs of Screen Overuse. Check out  Arlene's BOOKS  including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Follow Arlene on  Instagram  and/or  Facebook Watch the podcast on Arlene's  YouTube Channel How did Arlene's kids adapt to not having phones, video games or social media?  Watch the free video ,  Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. Have a question for Arlene to address on the podcast? Want to invite Arlene to speak to your group? Email speaking@arlenepellicane.com Not sure about a smartphone for your child? Check out the  Gabb Wireless phone  for kids and teens (use the promo code ARLENE)   Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us .

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