
Episode #52
52. Micro-Yeses, Major Change: Neuroscience for Real Life with Britt Frank (encore)
Originally released in 2025, we're re-releasing one of the most popular Hard of Work episodes, with neuropsychotherapist Britt Frank - with video for the first time. What if your anxiety isn’t a flaw, but a built-in safety feature? In this episode of Hard at Work, Ellen sits down with Britt Frank—licensed neuropsychotherapist and author of The Science of Stuck and Align Your Mind —to explore the science of our brains, burnout, emotional patterns, and what it really takes to get unstuck. They dive into anxiety as a check engine light, how "micro yeses" create sustainable change, and why your brain resists even the things you want. Britt also shares why work should be human, not therapeutic, and how leaders can move from over-empathy to curiosity. If you're tired of blaming yourself for "not doing the thing," or if you lead people who are stressed, stuck, or burned out—this one’s for you. Chapters 00:00 – Intro & Guest Welcome: Britt Frank 01:00 – The "Real" Bio: Humanity Over Hype 02:00 – Aerial Hoops and Perimenopause 04:00 – What Is a Neuropsychotherapist? 06:00 – Your Brain Is Not Your Enemy 08:00 – Self-Talk and Stress Hormones 12:00 – Anxiety as a Signal, Not a Diagnosis 14:00 – Why We React Differently at Work 17:00 – Emotional Safety vs. Role Clarity 19:00 – Over-Empathy and Disempowerment 22:00 – What Managers Are (and Aren’t) Responsible For 25:00 – Fuzzy Roles Create Burnout 28:00 – Why the Workplace Still Hasn’t Changed 31:00 – Your Brain Doesn’t Want Change 33:00 – The Power of Micro Yeses 37:00 – Parts Work & Align Your Mind 41:00 – The Inner Critic as a Coach 44:00 – Getting Unstuck When You're Mid-Career 48:00 – Feelings vs. Emotions 50:00 – TED Talk, Cookies, and Closing Thoughts Keywords: Burnout, anxiety at work, workplace culture, neuropsychology, people pleasing, micro yeses, parts work, leadership coaching, emotional regulation, nervous system, trauma-informed leadership, women at work, stress at work, perimenopause and work, therapy-informed leadership Show Notes: Britt Frank’s Website Follow Britt Frank on Instagram


