
The Hardcore Therapist
The Hardcore Therapist 156.5- Intentional Isn’t Enough: Who Are You When You’re Triggered?
Send us Fan Mail What does it actually mean to be intentional in a relationship? In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist , I break down the difference between having good intentions and actually changing your behavior when you’re triggered, defensive, hurt, or overwhelmed. We’ll talk about Wise Mind, values, nervous-system reactions, people-pleasing, control, boundaries, and the gap between intention and impact. I’ll also share a simple framework— Intention. Action. Impact. —to help you turn insight into something your partner can actually experience. Because wanting to communicate better isn’t the same as knowing what to do in the moment. Relationship insight matters. But insight without behavior change can keep you stuck. Support the show

