
Episode #8
Her Mom Left 9 Times. God Never Did. | Ava Freitas (EP 08)
Ava Freitas was three years old when her biological mother dropped her at her father's doorstep and walked away. Over the next eleven years her mom would leave and return again and again, roughly nine times in all, while an 18-year-old stepmom stepped in and raised her as her own. Ava could have grown up believing she wasn't enough. Instead, she grew up knowing she was never alone. In this episode of The Head and the Heel, Paula sits down with Ava Freitas, a 20-year-old worship leader, Christian rap artist, dancer, veterinary technician, and pre-med student, to talk about abandonment, forgiveness that doesn't require reconciliation, and the difference between chasing people's validation and serving from a full cup. Ava shares the moment she sat behind the couch as a little girl and felt Jesus with her, the boundary she finally drew in a Dunkin' Donuts parking lot, and the day her own dance team turned on her over a single post about her faith. Through all of it, one truth held: even if people leave, there is One who never will. This is a story about identity, rejection, and the God who trims away the branches so something new can grow. CHAPTERS 00:00 Who is Jesus to you? 01:22 Vet tech, zookeeper, dancer, and a brand-new album 04:46 Servant first: who Jesus says she is 06:53 Dropped at the doorstep: her mom's story 10:00 Nine times gone, and a two-week silence 13:00 The bully's dad and drawing the line 16:00 Forgiveness is not always reconciliation 19:12 Attachment, rejection, and taking thoughts captive 25:02 Sitting with Jesus behind the couch 29:05 The closet, the Bible books, and getting saved at 14 34:38 Forgiving her mom and forgiving herself 42:20 Rejected by her dance team for her faith 49:50 Why she only got bolder 53:58 What's next for Ava 56:42 Closing prayer CONNECT WITH AVA Instagram: @theavafratus ( https://www.instagram.com/theavafratus/ ) Music on Spotify: search "ava." plus a song title like "Stay in Your Lane" or "Counting Blessings" Worship team at New Hope Chapel, Plymouth, Massachusetts ABOUT THE SHOW The Head and the Heel is a Christian testimony podcast rooted in Genesis 3:15, the first gospel promise that though the serpent would bruise the heel, Christ would crush the serpent's head. Each week, guests share who they really are, where the enemy tried to wound them, and how Jesus met them with truth, redemption, and victory. Subscribe and watch new episodes every week. If this conversation encouraged you, share it with someone who needs hope. The bruise is not the end of the story. In Christ, the serpent does not win. #TheHeadAndTheHeel #ChristianTestimony #ChristianPodcast #Faith #Identity #Forgiveness #Testimony #Jesus

