
Episode #29
Eight Losses To Two Children And The Work Of Holding Space a deep discussion with Stacey June Lewis
We sit down with psychotherapist and storyteller Stacy Jane Lewis to talk about pregnancy loss, fertility grief, and what it means to hold life and death in the body at the same time. We move from lived experience to practical support, including nervous system regulation and permission to stop trying to “fix” feelings on a timeline. • Stacy’s path from broadcaster to psychotherapist and miscarriage support work • How fertility “trenches” can begin before trying to conceive • The reality of acute grief after miscarriage and early pregnancy loss • Why being truly seen matters more than the right words • How grief shows up in identity shifts, relationships, career changes, and monthly cycles • Lived experience in therapy without making the session about the therapist • Somatic support, breathwork, and rebuilding connection with the body • Decision fatigue in IVF and how disconnection drives external searching • Practical ways to find Stacy’s work through The Well Hub in Melbourne and online Grief after miscarriage or a failed IVF cycle doesn’t just live in your thoughts, it lives in your body. One day you’re imagining a baby, the next you’re navigating loss, numbness, anger, or a strange feeling of disconnection that’s hard to explain to anyone who hasn’t been there. We’re joined by psychotherapist and longtime storyteller Stacy Jane Lewis, whose own fertility journey spans six years, two children, and eight losses. Stacy shares what changed for her after pregnancy loss, how that experience shaped her work with the Pink Elephants miscarriage support charity, and what she’s learned from sitting with women in the most acute moments of early pregnancy loss. We talk about why grief can start long before you ever “try,” why people around you may struggle to sit with pain, and how therapy can help you feel truly seen without forcing silver linings. Then we get practical about nervous system regulation and somatic support. Stacy explains fight or flight after loss, why the body can “switch off” as a survival response, and how decision fatigue during fertility treatment can pull you toward external answers when self-trust is shaken. She also shares how her Melbourne practice at The Well Hub in Spotswood blends counseling (including telehealth) with body-based supports designed to help you feel safe again. If you’re in the thick of fertility grief, take this as permission to slow down and breathe. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find real miscarriage support and grounded fertility counseling when it matters most. Stacey June Lewis detials; email - stacey@thewellhub.com.au website - https://www.thewellhub.com.au Socilas; @staceyjune @thewell_hub @thewell_spotswood

