Episode #3
The DFBSCTA Conversation Everyone Needs to have Before Sex
This is the conversation that changed my sex life! I believe everyone should be going through this communication framework before any intimate, sensual, sexual, tantric or kinky experience. I go into depth with: ~ The DFBSCTA framework: Desires, Fears, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Communication, Triggers/Trauma and Aftercare ~ How these conversations create the “fence of the playground” so you can play more freely, safely and deliciously ~ How to ask for what you want in the moment without making the other person wrong ~ Why safe words, traffic lights and communication protocols are not just for BDSM (and how to create them) ~ How trauma responses can show up during intimacy and how to support someone with care ~ Why aftercare and debriefing are essential for deeper trust, safety and pleasure This episode is for anyone who wants to experience deeper intimacy, safer exploration, better communication and more erotic aliveness in their sex, kink, tantra, relationships or professional intimacy work. It’s especially for practitioners, lovers, couples, sex workers, tantra practitioners, doms, subs, coaches and anyone who wants to create experiences where desire, boundaries, safety, pleasure and consent are truly honoured. Ready for more depth and juiciness? Follow my Substack: https://substack.com/@ejlove Check out my Women’s Sexual Healing Program: https://www.ejlove.com/soulgasmic-woman All upcoming Immersions and Trainings: https://linktr.ee/csetraining Follow CSE Trainings on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/csetrainings For my other programs and mentoring with me: https://linktr.ee/ejloveofficial Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ejloveofficial Or Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ejloveofficial Thanks for tuning in, now let's get turned on! Keywords: conscious sexuality, intimacy communication, consent, boundaries, safe words, traffic light system, BDSM communication, tantra, kink, sensual massage, erotic play, trauma-informed intimacy, trauma responses, nervous system safety, sexual healing, aftercare, desire, pleasure, embodiment, dom self, praise kink, procrastination, erotic aliveness, CSE immersion, CSE practitioner training, intimacy coaching, tantric sexuality, sexual health, safer sex, embodied consent, kink scene negotiation, conscious sex, pleasure dom, submissive communication, intimacy framework
