
Episode #143
Carried by Faith: Surviving Cancer, Grieving Loss and Choosing Joy with Terri Renella
What carries you forward when life gives you more than you ever imagined you could bear? For Terri Renella, the answer has been faith. Terri has faced extraordinary challenges — a rare and aggressive parotid gland cancer that returned multiple times, an ICU stay on a ventilator, difficult decisions about her treatment, the loss of both parents and three brothers, and eventually the unimaginable loss of her beloved son, George. Today, Terri is celebrating 10 years cancer-free, and through everything she has endured, her faith has become the foundation she continually returns to. In this deeply personal conversation, Terri takes us back to her cancer diagnosis and the frightening progression that followed. She shares why she sought multiple opinions, researched her options, became her own advocate, and ultimately chose a medical team she felt would work with her rather than simply tell her what to do. We talk about the importance of viewing your healthcare providers as partners and asking questions when something doesn't feel right — while recognizing that every person's cancer journey and treatment decisions are uniquely their own. But Terri's story extends far beyond cancer. After losing her son, George, she made a conscious decision not to bury her grief. Instead, she allowed herself to mourn deeply and leaned more fully into her faith. Through prayer, scripture, surrender and learning to release the things she cannot control, Terri has slowly found her way toward peace and purpose. One of the most beautiful lessons she shares is that joy can sit beside sorrow . Finding joy again doesn't mean the grief disappears or that we stop loving the people we've lost. It means allowing ourselves to experience both. Terri also shares why surrender isn't something that happens once. For her, it's a daily — and sometimes moment-by-moment — practice of trusting God, letting go of control and taking the next step even when she can't see where the road is leading. We also talk about the importance of real human connection, finding community, and Terri's growing desire to use everything she has lived through to help others — particularly parents who have experienced the loss of a child — believe that life can still hold meaning, purpose, peace and even joy. In this episode, we talk about: • Terri's rare and aggressive parotid gland cancer diagnosis • Surviving multiple recurrences and a life-threatening hospitalization • Becoming your own healthcare advocate • Finding doctors who feel like partners in your care • Navigating fear and difficult treatment decisions • How faith carried Terri through cancer and profound loss • Losing her son, George, and giving herself permission to truly grieve • Learning that joy and sorrow can exist together • What it means to surrender control and trust God • The importance of prayer, community and genuine human connection • Finding peace and purpose after unimaginable loss • Terri's desire to use her story to give hope to others Ten years cancer-free, Terri's story isn't simply one of survival. It's a story of faith — faith when the future was uncertain, faith in the midst of devastating loss, and faith that even after our darkest seasons, there can still be purpose, connection, peace and joy. Resources: Terri's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/terriren Terri's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrilynn-renella-49ab332/ Follow: Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/melissagrosboll/ My website: https://melissagrosboll.com Email me: drmelissagrosboll@gmail.com






