Episode #220
#220 - Relationships Are the Business: 8 Lessons from "If Jesus Smoked Cigars"
In this episode of The Necessary Entrepreneur, host Mark Perkins sits down with Joshua Evarts, entrepreneur, business owner, and author of the new book If Jesus Smoked Cigars: The Eight Lessons in Relational Leadership . Joshua has spent 25 years in business, most recently as the owner of the Vault Cigar Lounge in Meridian, Idaho, where he built a thriving community around one simple belief: relationships are not just a nice part of doing business, they are the business. His model of relational leadership comes down to three truths. People do business with people they like. People stay loyal to people they trust. And people evangelize for people who make them feel loved. In this conversation, Joshua and Mark dig into: Why you should build culture, not your business, and how a healthy culture attracts healthy employees, customers, and vendors The cheeky story behind the title If Jesus Smoked Cigars, and what a 2,000 year old model of relational leadership can teach modern entrepreneurs How cigar culture, from Idaho's Snake River to two deployments in Iraq, shaped his philosophy of connection and refuge The $1.4 million embezzlement that shut down his second location, and the two things founders overlook when starting companies: legal structure and an org chart Why likability is a competitive advantage, and the Steve Jobs and Elon Musk exception to the rule John Wooden's pyramid of success, and why industriousness and enthusiasm bookend every winning culture His 2020 battle with primary pancreatic lymphoma during COVID, and how facing mortality rewrote the book he was writing Whether you run a startup, a small business, or a team inside a larger company, this episode is a practical guide to building a business people actually want to be part of. About Joshua Evarts: Joshua Evarts is an entrepreneur with 25 years in business across software, real estate development, and hospitality. For the last decade he has owned the Vault Cigar Lounge in Meridian, Idaho, a premium cigar experience built on the idea that relationship is the primary currency. He is the author of If Jesus Smoked Cigars: The Eight Lessons in Relational Leadership. The Necessary Entrepreneur with Mark Perkins features candid conversations with entrepreneurs, founders and business leaders about what it actually takes to build, operate and scale a company. Subscribe to The Necessary Entrepreneur for weekly conversations with founders and operators who have actually built something. Connect With Us: Website: https://www.thenecessaryentrepreneur.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thenecessaryentrepreneur Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenecessaryentrepreneur/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheNecessaryEntrepreneurPod X (Formerly Twitter): https://twitter.com/MPerkinsTNE LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tnepod/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@tneclips Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6xhGUE1yzy2N0AemUOlJPx?si=d1c5c316af404f15 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/no/podcast/the-necessary-entrepreneur/id1547181167 Find Out More About Joshua Evarts: https://www. linkedin.com/in/joshuaevarts/ https://ifjesus.com/ https://thevault.live/ https://www.instagram.com/ vaultcigarlounge/

