
Episode #170
The Stories We Live Inside: Nervous System, Human Design & The Unexpected Story with Shannon Presson
Send us Fan Mail Today I'm joined by Shannon Presson β author of The Unexpected Story , which includes a healing fable called "Lumina's Journey" and a reader guide called the Dragonfly Path. Shannon spent 20 years as a corporate event planner before a disruptive menopause transition cracked her open and led her into coaching and writing. Her work sits at the intersection of story, nervous system, and what it means to find your way back to yourself. This conversation went so many places I didn't expect β and I loved every one of them. What we cover: Shannon's origin story β two decades in corporate event planning, a disruptive menopause transition, and how following what she couldn't explain led her to write The Unexpected Story Brain vs. body wisdom β how the brain deletes, distorts, and generalizes reality, and why the heart and gut offer a more grounded, truthful signal How survival-mode storytelling keeps us contracted β the stories we tell ourselves that once protected us and now keep us small, stuck, and separate from what's actually possible Fables as healing tools β why indirect story (like the fable "Lumina's Journey") can reach places that direct teaching cannot Empaths and borrowed emotions β how highly sensitive people absorb others' emotional states and how to begin distinguishing what is yours from what you've taken on Human design β defined vs. open centers, energy types (projectors vs. generators), and what this framework reveals about nervous system needs and how we're designed to give and receive energy Reframing stuckness as winter β why the composting, fallow, apparently unproductive season is not a failure but a necessary part of becoming Ancestral and cultural narratives β the stories that aren't even ours but live in our bodies and shape our sense of belonging Perimenopause as threshold β including the astrological context of Chiron and Saturn returns, and why this time of life is a doorway into deeper sovereignty rather than a decline Shannon's noticing practice: Identify a repeated story you tell β about yourself, your life, a relationship β and ask: What do I get from telling this story? Not as self-criticism, but as genuine curiosity. The answer is often illuminating. Shannon's book & work: The Unexpected Story (includes "Lumina's Journey" fable + Dragonfly Path reader guide): [insert link] Website: theunexpectedstory.com Free gift: [insert link from end of episode] Resources: Free Masterclass: The Alchemy of the Perimenopause Portal Ayurvedic Dosha Quick Reference Guide Abhyanga Self Massage Guide Weekend Nervous System Reset Nourished For Resilience Workbook Find me at www.mynourishednervoussystem.com and @nourishednervoussytem on Instagram






