Episode #112
The Art of Living in Alignment with Desi Bolin
What if feeling stuck isn't a sign that you need to work harder... but a signal that something is out of alignment? In this episode, Ian Bowen sits down with Desi Bolin, serial entrepreneur, business strategist, and catalyst for personal growth. Through her work with Virtually Sourced, Catalyst Collective, and Catalyst Conversations, Desi helps people navigate change, build businesses that support their lives, and take bold action rooted in who they truly are. Desi shares the story of leaving corporate leadership after realizing she didn't want to spend more than half of her children's childhood away from them, and how that decision led her into entrepreneurship. She and Ian explore the mindset shifts that helped her build self-trust, embrace authenticity, and create a life around purpose rather than societal expectations. Throughout the conversation, Desi explains why people often don't need another strategy, they need a different way of thinking. From replacing "but" with "and," shifting from "have to" to "get to," and operating with intention while detaching from the outcome, Desi offers practical ways to reframe adversity and move forward with greater clarity. The conversation also dives into the importance of staying present, embracing incremental growth, giving yourself permission to fail, practicing self-compassion, and recognizing when an old identity, relationship, or habit no longer serves you. In this episode, you’ll discover: 1. Why feeling stuck may be a sign of misalignment rather than a lack of effort. 2. How self-trust and self-love influence the way you show up in every area of life. 3. Why operating with intention while detaching from the outcome can create greater freedom. 4. How small language shifts like "and" instead of "but" can change the way you think. 5. Why authenticity builds trust and helps attract the right people into your life. 6. How inner work can help rewrite old stories and expand your sense of what's possible. 7. Why consistency, presence, and discipline are essential for long-term growth. 8. How to recognize when an old identity, relationship, or habit no longer serves you. 9. Why failure can become one of the fastest ways to learn and grow. 10. How giving yourself grace can help you continue moving forward through adversity. Key Takeaways: 1. Alignment Creates Momentum: Progress becomes more sustainable when your actions are rooted in your values, strengths, purpose, and the person you want to become. 2. Self-Trust Changes Everything: Building trust in yourself allows you to take courageous steps even before you feel completely confident. 3. Your Internal World Gets Amplified: What you carry internally can influence how you show up in your business, relationships, and life. 4. Choose "Get To" Over "Have To": Reframing obligations as choices can shift your perspective and restore a sense of agency. 5. Authenticity Builds Trust: Showing up as your true self creates deeper connections and attracts people who genuinely align with you. 6. Growth Requires Discomfort: Stepping outside your familiar patterns and homeostasis is often where meaningful growth begins. 7. Consistency Requires Presence: Repeating the right actions matters, but staying present allows you to recognize bottlenecks and make adjustments along the way. 8. Failure Is Part of the Process: Mistakes can reveal what doesn't work and provide lessons that move you forward. 8. Give Yourself Grace: Progress doesn't have to happen overnight. Self-compassion makes it easier to keep going through setbacks and difficult seasons. 10. Make It Simple: When facing adversity, stop overthinking and focus on the simple, aligned action you can take right now. Timestamps: 00:00 – Meet Desi Bolin and her journey into entrepreneurship 03:23 – Leaving corporate leadership to build a life around family 05:20 – Self-trust, self-love, and the impact of your internal world 07:18 – Shifting from “have to” to “get to” 09:23 – How to recognize when you're out of alignment 11:44 – The inner work behind changing your life 16:03 – Building a life around authenticity and purpose 20:10 – The long-term work of personal growth 23:37 – Reclaiming your potential and owning your power 27:10 – Why consistency and patience create lasting growth 34:24 – Consistency vs. insanity: knowing when to change course 40:37 – Desi’s mindset shift: make everything simple and live with intention Connect with Desi Bolin: Website: https://talkwithdesi.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/desibolin/ CONNECT WITH IAN BOWEN: Website: https://watchmemindset.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ianrbowen/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ianrbowen YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@PositivePersistence-ch8fk Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
