
Episode #81
The Oncology Doula What Fifty Years at the Bedside Taught Me About Living with Ann Wax | Ep. 81
If you've built a life that looks right but doesn't feel right anymore, this one's your permission slip to ask the harder question. Ann Wax RN has spent fifty years at the bedsides of people facing cancer, and what she's learned isn't just about illness. It's about what matters when we stop performing and start telling the truth. As an oncology nurse, Oncology Doula™, and author of the upcoming Be Your Own Lifeguard, Ann shares what her patients have taught her about resilience, self-worth, and becoming a "Present Day Elder." Key Takeaways Pivoted from Nurse to Doula: After 50 years as an oncology nurse, Ann Wax became an oncology doula to focus on the emotional support patients need, rather than the physical demands of chemotherapy administration. Core Philosophy: "Be Your Own Lifeguard": This principle, which is also the title of her upcoming book, advocates for radical self-preservation. It teaches that you must save yourself from drowning relationships or situations before attempting to help others. Empowering Patients to Speak Up: Wax's work involves giving patients permission to voice their needs and concerns, especially women who are often conditioned to remain silent. She believes authenticity is crucial to healing. Legacy as Healing: Legacy is not just what we leave behind, but also the unconscious wounds and patterns passed down through generations. Wax's goal is to help people recognise and heal these wounds to create a positive legacy for the future. Contact Ann Wax LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annwax/

