The REALationship Method

The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!

The REALationship Method is a society podcast hosted by Chris Lomboy, with 108 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Chris Lomboy hosts The REALationship Method, a society show with 108 episodes published.

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  Episode #110

  More Than His Girlfriend: Fitness, Influence & Finding Your Own Identity with Maka

  Aug 18, 20261h 10mS5

  Send us Fan Mail People love to talk about “discipline” like it’s just willpower, but the truth is messier: schedules, stress, relationships, and social media all shape how we show up. I sit down with Maka to get real about what it actually takes to protect your me time, stay consistent, and build a career that fits who you’re becoming. We bounce from early mornings and late nights into the deeper stuff: what you owe yourself when life gets busy and nobody’s coming to save your calendar for you. Maka shares her path through entrepreneurship and career pivots, from beauty and esthetics to re-centering fitness and working toward becoming a certified personal trainer. We talk personal branding, switching niches on social media, losing followers, and the confidence it takes to keep going anyway. If you’ve ever thought about moving away for school or work, her Las Vegas lessons bring a grounded look at money, independence, and rebuilding momentum when plans change. Then we get into relationship communication, because none of this happens in a vacuum. We dig into accountability, tone, venting versus problem solving, and why “I’m silent because I don’t want it to get worse” can still land like distance. We also talk about body image pressure, “looking the part,” and what it feels like when people see you as someone’s partner before they see you as your own person. If you’re into relationship advice, fitness mindset, entrepreneurship, and social media boundaries, hit play and take something useful from every chapter. Subscribe for more, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the one communication habit you’re working on right now. • early mornings versus late nights and how we protect quiet time • juggling business, studying, and relationships without burning out • pivoting from esthetics to fitness and rebuilding after losing followers • body image pressure on social media and “looking the part” standards • handling likes, comments, and online conflict without spiraling • communicating truth with better tone and avoiding disrespect • venting versus problem solving and saying what you actually need • being seen as someone’s partner first and staying grounded in your own identity

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  Episode #109

  'Speak My Language', 10 Day Movement Mission, and Does Heartbreak Make Better Music?, with Kali Flower

  Aug 11, 202659 minS5

  Send us Fan Mail A song can be a postcard from home or it can be a line in the sand. Kali Flower joins us in person for a super real conversation about coming back to Hawaii, feeling that instant reset, and still carrying the pressure of family expectations, big dreams, and a limited window to see everyone you love. We talk about the questions that always pop up when you visit home, how to show up without resenting the schedule, and why protecting your timeline matters when you’re building a life with purpose. We also get into the story behind her new single “Speak My Language” and the 10-day mission to promote it. What starts as a marketing plan turns into something deeper: connecting with people, reclaiming what Hawaii represents, and pushing back on outsiders trying to define the culture. If you’re into independent music, artist branding, music marketing, and real behind-the-scenes industry talk, this one lays it out with zero fluff. Then we go craft and relationships. Kali breaks down her songwriting process, why heartbreak often makes better music than healing, and how world-building shapes what makes the cut for a project. We talk choreography and breath control training, balancing a Sephora day job with late-night performances, and the hard relationship questions artists face: can love survive an artist schedule, is “support” enough, and what boundaries keep you steady with exes and old doors that do not need reopening. We close with discernment, faith, and the difference between a good opportunity and a God opportunity when everything looks tempting. If this conversation hits, subscribe, share it with a friend chasing a dream, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What part are you navigating right now: home expectations, career hustle, or relationship boundaries? We sit down with Kali Flower in person and talk through what it means to come home to Hawaii while pushing a new single into the world. We get honest about the grind behind music, the relationships that get tested by ambition, and the choices that keep you aligned when everything looks like an opportunity. • Coming home expectations with family and friends and how to manage the limited time • “Speak My Language” and why the rollout becomes more connection than promotion • Building support as an independent artist and finding resources beyond your hometown • Working a Sephora job while performing and why culture matters more than perks • Songwriting from present emotion and past experience plus rewriting endings for story • Why heartbreak tends to create stronger music and what Saltwater Secrets represents • Dating on an artist schedule and drawing lines between stage persona and real life • Training for choreography and vocals including breath control and cardio • Social media making music easier to release but harder to stand out • Collaboration dynamics, pride, control, and learning to trust a team • The reality behind the “smoke and mirrors” of the music industry and marketing rollout • Boundaries with exes and why intention matters with “harmless” messages • Discernment, prayer, and counsel for choosing the right opportunities

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  Episode #108

  Behind the Ink: Love, Life & Lowrider Culture with Kayla

  Jul 21, 20261h 9mS5

  Send us Fan Mail You can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to put on their body and why, but you learn even more when you hear the stories behind it. We link up with Kayla, a Waipahu tattoo artist at Tattoo Crew, a lowrider model, and a mom, for a conversation that bounces from shop life to family life without losing the thread: be real, be intentional, and protect your peace. We talk about the growing wave of AI tattoo design and why so many artists hate it, especially when tattooing is supposed to be about creativity, skill, and personal style. Kayla walks through how she gets into tattooing through ombre brows and an apprenticeship, what a legit tattoo portfolio should show, and why rejection is part of the path if you want to break into the tattoo industry. We also hit the tattoos that age badly, like partner name tattoos, and what makes her excited to work on a piece, especially when a client comes with meaning and a story. Then we open it up: lowrider culture in Hawaii and what it takes to get respect in a tight knit community, motherhood and therapy, making time for self care without guilt, and the hard parenting conversations around bullying, fighting, and accountability. We even get into relationship boundaries like separate bank accounts and whether being friends with an ex ever really stays clean. If you vibe with honest talk and real life lessons, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What topic hit you hardest: tattoos, parenting, or relationship boundaries? • why AI tattoo design feels like a shortcut and how to spot it • how Kayla starts with ombre brows then commits to a tattoo apprenticeship • what to put in a tattoo portfolio and why you will hear no a lot • tattoo red flags like partner name tattoos and trend quotes • what makes a tattoo a green flag for an artist to take on • lowrider modeling in Hawaii and earning respect by loving the culture • patience, therapy, and making guilt free time for yourself as a parent • kids fighting, guns, and why parents have to be accountable • a real bullying story and rules for self defense without starting fights • separate bank accounts, joint savings, and avoiding money fights • staying cordial in blended families while keeping boundaries with exes • handling rumors, name droppers, and weird DMs by protecting your peace

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  Episode #107

  Misused Labels, Fast Rebounds & Justifying Ghosting with Tyler

  Jul 7, 20261h 5mS5

  Send us Fan Mail Cutting someone off can feel like power and peace at the same time, but it can also be a way to dodge the conversation you’re scared to have. We sit down with Tyler, a preschool educator and aspiring model, and get painfully specific about what people mean when they call someone “toxic” or label a “red flag” and how often those labels get misused when it’s really just discomfort, disagreement, or bruised pride. We pressure-test boundaries with real scenarios: Do family members deserve unlimited chances because they’re blood? What changes when the betrayal is small versus life-altering? We talk forgiveness versus access, people pleasing, respecting elders who don’t respect you back, and the hard truth that you can love someone and still choose distance. If you’ve ever said “I hope you eat, just not at my table,” this one will land. We also dig into adult friendship breakups and why they can hurt worse than dating, from jealousy and ulterior motives to politics and loyalty conflicts. Then we go straight at the ghosting debate: when it’s cruel, when it’s self-protection, and how “outgrowing” someone is basically a breakup that still deserves clarity and closure. To close, we connect the dots to self-awareness and mental health: shadow work, therapy as a tool for perspective, and what it takes to own your part without abandoning your standards. We even zoom out to real-life stressors like teacher burnout, pay, budgeting, and self-worth. If you got something from this conversation, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s navigating boundaries, and leave a review so more people can find the REALationship Method podcast. • preschool life realities, messy cleanups, and what teachers deal with daily • modeling as a fun side hustle, getting paid in products, and runway nerves • staying off dating apps, why people rebound fast, and what that signals • defining toxic behavior vs red flags, plus why disagreement is not abuse • family not getting unlimited chances, and separating love from access • money boundary scenarios, from a karaoke machine to a $20,000 betrayal • why adult friendships end, including politics, jealousy, and disrespect • when ghosting feels justified, how to explain outgrowing someone, and the need for closure • shadow work, being emotional vs logical in conflict, and learning from past mistakes • therapy as perspective not pressure, plus choosing a therapist you feel safe with • teacher burnout, low pay, budgeting, and the struggle to truly know your worth

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  Episode #106

  Love Frequency, Powerful Women Surrendering and Fake Lifestyles with Mzeye

  May 27, 202624 min

  Send us Fan Mail “I’ve never felt emotionally safe.” When Mzeye says that out loud, the whole conversation changes. We go from surface-level dating talk straight into what it means to be the strong one for everyone else, how grief reshapes your nervous system, and why “I can do it alone” can quietly turn into a wall you don’t know how to put down. We unpack attraction versus emotional depth, emotional control versus emotional suppression, and what happens when a partner’s insecurity starts sabotaging something good. Mzeye shares how losing her mother and going through a breakup pushed her to protect her peace, commit to health and fitness, and stop tolerating disrespect. We also talk about modern relationships and social media culture, where looks, surgery, and “baddie” branding can get more attention than actual character, communication, and long-term compatibility. Then we get practical about hyper independence and love. Yes, powerful women can surrender, but it takes a partner who shows up, handles business, and earns trust through consistent action. Mzeye defines softness in simple terms: being able to sit back, breathe, and know someone’s got you without you having to manage them. We also get into creativity and building purpose from pain: why she launched her Love Frequency podcast, her take on healing energy and 528 Hz, what it’s like dealing with podcast tech glitches and guest ghosting, and her new intuitive, therapeutic deck focused on accountability, boundaries, and self-love. If you want relationship advice with emotional intelligence and real-life honesty, press play, subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find the show. • first attraction through looks, then real connection through depth and conversation • emotional intelligence as expressing feelings rather than suppressing them • disappointment, forgiveness, and why confidence protects the relationship • never feeling emotionally safe and the pressure of being the strong one • coping tools for grief and stress through fitness, health, and positivity • hyper independence online, fake lifestyles, and why collaboration matters • what surrender and softness look like when trust is earned • modern dating lacking depth because social media rewards image over substance • starting Love Frequency after loss and the meaning behind “love frequency” • podcast consistency, tech problems, rejection, and staying focused • creating an intuitive healing deck built around accountability and boundaries

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