
The West of Perfection Podcast
What Toxic Communication Is Costing Your Team | Organizational Culture Series | Ep. 15
The passive-aggressive Teams chat among your employees is costing your company real money. In the second installment of their Organizational Culture series, Erin Van de Voorde and Mary Katherine Wathen expose the six sneaky communication habits, from the silent treatment to gossiping "as a bonding activity", that quietly wreck team trust long before anyone admits there's a problem. With eye-opening stats on what toxic communication actually costs companies and a simple three-question test to catch yourself before you avoid the necessary but hard conversation, this episode is a wake-up call for anyone who's ever struggled to communicate well. 0:00 Intro and West Moment 1:11 Introducing today's topic: toxic communication 2:27 Case study: a business owner's team caught in a messaging spiral 8:27 Pattern 1: Triangulation 9:52 Pattern 2: Weaponized silence 12:03 Pattern 3: Surface-level nice 13:02 Pattern 4: Gossip as currency 16:29 Pattern 5: Vague feedback 18:12 Pattern 6: Passive-aggressive communication 18:45 Recap of all six patterns 20:27 The real cost of toxic communication, by the numbers 23:51 A three-question framework for healthier communication 24:39 This week's challenge What We Cover Why avoiding hard conversations leads teams into toxic communication habits, even when no one intends it The six patterns of toxic communication: triangulation, weaponized silence, surface-level nice, gossip as currency, vague feedback, and passive-aggressiveness Why written communication on teams is especially prone to misinterpretation, Real statistics on what poor communication costs organizations in turnover, productivity, and trust A simple three-question framework to help you speak more directly and with more courage -- Leave us a voicemail or send us a text at (615) 864-0359 to ask a question or share your West Moment! This week's challenge is to pick one of the three questions from this week's framework, "Am I saying this to the right person?", "Am I being clear or staying in my comfort zone?", or "What is the cost of my silence?", and put it into practice this week. -- Connect With West: Free, Weekly Leadership Insights for Orthodontists - Sign up for Beyond the Brackets here! Free, Weekly Leadership Insights for Business Leaders - Sign Up for Beyond the Boardroom here! West’s website: https://www.Westofperfection.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/westofperfection/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/west-of-perfection/ Work with us: https://www.westofperfection.com/services

