
Episode #1
S3E01| Can You Cheat With a Chatbot? AI Relationships, Prenups & Big Tech
Can you cheat on your partner with an AI chatbot? As AI relationships become more realistic and more emotionally engaging, couples are beginning to confront questions that would have sounded strange just a few years ago. Some are even addressing AI relationships and virtual infidelity in prenuptial agreements. In this episode of Therapy, Tech & Takeout, Jackie Toale and Toni Teixeira, LCSW explore what AI intimacy means for trust, boundaries, emotional connection, and marriage. They discuss whether a relationship with a chatbot can count as cheating, how AI use can affect a couple financially and emotionally, and why conversations about technology may need to become part of how couples define the expectations of their relationship. The conversation also looks at the broader issue of tech company responsibility, including the major Meta settlement involving youth social media use and the push for stronger safeguards around addictive and potentially harmful technology. Jackie and Toni discuss: • Whether emotional intimacy with AI should be considered infidelity • Why AI relationships are beginning to appear in prenups • The impact of AI use on time, money, trust, and connection • Why couples may need clearer boundaries around AI • How curiosity can sometimes be more productive than shame • Privacy concerns when sharing personal information with AI • Whether AI companies could eventually face legal responsibility for relationship harm • Meta, youth social media use, and the limits of relying on tech companies to regulate themselves As technology becomes more capable of creating emotional attachment, the question may not simply be whether AI is “real.” The more important question may be: what happens when the relationship with the technology feels real to the person using it? Preorder Toni’s book: Easy Somatic Exercises for Everyone’s Brain https://www.amazon.com/Easy-Somatic-Exercises-Everyone-Brain/dp/B0GGTF8YFJ/ Follow Therapy, Tech & Takeout for conversations about mental health, technology, relationships, and how emerging tech is changing the way we live and connect.

