
Episode #15
Ep 15: Marriage Isn’t the Mountaintop: The Truth (and Lie) About Worth, Identity, and Unlearning the Script
<p >If you want to learn more about who I really am, start here. This episode is not just about marriage—it’s about everything that gets tied to it: worth, identity, pressure, performance, legacy, grief, and the lies we’ve been sold about what makes a life “valid.”</p> <p >In this deeply personal, layered conversation, I share what I’ve never said out loud: that being married is not a flex. That we’ve been programmed—especially as Black women—to believe our worth is tethered to someone choosing us. That we are better if we become a wife, and somehow...

