Touching Grass

Welcome to Touching Grass, your escape from the digital noise. Sometimes life feels like living inside a trend. Everyone online is starting to sound the same. Same opinions, same phrases, same advice.Our feeds are full of extremes and if we’re not careful, a stranger’s worldview starts to become our own .This podcast breaks you out of that noise with grounded and nuanced conversations.Let's talk about social media culture, dating, life changes, self worth, and finding your identity in a world that's constantly telling you who to be.It’s time to reclaim your own perspective.

Touching Grass is a society podcast hosted by Sofia Natasha, with 32 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Sofia Natasha hosts Touching Grass, a society show with 32 episodes published.

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  Touching Grass

  we were taught to wait for inspiration that’s never coming

  Aug 18, 202613 min

  0:00 am i running out of ideas? 1:16 where do ideas come from anyways? 2:25 my podcast altered my creativity 3:49 is creativity separate from ourselves? 4:57 the discipline of creation 6:03 it’s good to be bad 7:17 training your brain to think 8:42 the over reliance on inspiration 10:25 changing your mind changes your life 11:46 create without being creative What if you're not running out of ideas? What if you're just waiting for them to find you? We’re taught that creativity happens when inspiration strikes. That the best ideas appear in the shower, on a walk, or in the middle of doing something completely unrelated. And sometimes they do. But what happens when you stop waiting for inspiration... and start looking for ideas instead? In this episode of Touching Grass, we explore why creativity isn't something you're simply born with, why waiting to feel inspired can actually limit your creativity, and how consistently creating can train your brain to find ideas everywhere. Because creativity might feel spontaneous. But the ability to create consistently is a skill. We get into: -Why we believe creative people are simply "inspired" -How waiting for ideas can actually shrink your creativity -Why creativity expands the more you practice it -What starting this podcast taught me about consistently generating ideas -The surprising reason I came up with six episode ideas in one week -Why your brain gets better at noticing ideas when you train it to look for them -The difference between taking a creative break and waiting for inspiration -Why bad ideas are actually an important part of the creative process -How discipline can strengthen your creative muscle -Why inspiration is useful, but relying on it can hold you back -How social media and AI can interrupt the brainstorming process before you've had a chance to think for yourself -Why changing a small belief about creativity can change what you accomplish This episode isn't about forcing yourself to create when you're burnt out. And it's not about pretending inspiration doesn't exist. It's about realizing that inspiration doesn't have to come first. Sometimes you have to create before you feel creative. Because the more you practice looking for ideas, the more ideas you start to see.

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  Episode #31

  your 'relatable' content is someone else's new insecurity

  Aug 11, 202614 minS1

  0:00 why it's so easy to hate yourself 1:29 you're spreading beauty standards 2:32 is plastic surgery transparency harmful? 4:05 how insecurity spreads 5:30 we are the new media 7:08 the double-edged sword of validation 7:56 your words become your mindset (high school story) 9:52 your inner dialogue is contagious 11:14 a million voices in your head 11:58 changing the conversation 13:05 becoming the positive change Every time you call yourself ugly.. .Someone else starts wondering if they should feel the same way. We like to blame beauty standards on magazines, influencers, and billion-dollar companies. But what if the people keeping them alive... are us? In this episode of Touching Grass, we explore how insecurity spreads through language, why the way we talk about ourselves shapes the people around us, and how social media has turned all of us into the new media. Because beauty standards aren't just created by corporations. They're reinforced every time we tell the world what we believe is wrong with ourselves. We get into: -Why insecurity is more contagious than we realize -How social media invents new beauty flaws for us to fix -Why the way you talk about yourself influences how others see themselves -The psychology behind why repeated messages become beliefs -When plastic surgery transparency helps... and when it becomes marketing -How influencers unintentionally profit from spreading insecurity -Why intention isn't the same as impact -The surprising reason speaking negatively about yourself strengthens those beliefs -The story that changed the way I talk about my appearance forever -How we can reshape beauty standards by changing the language we use every day This episode isn't about pretending insecurities don't exist. And it's not about shaming people for getting Botox, plastic surgery, or talking about their struggles. It's about recognizing that every conversation we have about beauty shapes someone else's inner voice. Because we are the media now. The words we choose don't just change how we see ourselves. They change how the next person sees themselves too. If we want healthier beauty standards, we can't just change what we consume. We have to change what we create.

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  Episode #30

  why "don't chase, attract" is making dating harder

  Aug 4, 202616 minS1

  0:00 sperm goes to egg? 1:13 how being passive limits you 2:34 the lie of 'attract, don't chase' 3:30 i made the first move 6:03 chasing vs desperation 7:34 you’re not the prize (neither is he) 8:37 nyc story: when nobody makes the first move 11:35 interest does not equal action 12:22 there is no “chooser” 13:29 bridgerton & the illusion of choice 14:54 dating isn’t a game of caring less "Don't chase, attract." It's some of the most common dating advice online. Women are told to wait to be chosen. Men are told they're the prize. Everyone is trying to seem less interested than they actually are. And somehow... dating has never felt harder. In this episode of Touching Grass, we unpack why modern dating advice is keeping people passive, why making the first move isn't the same as chasing someone, and how waiting to be chosen may be costing you some of the most meaningful connections of your life. Because empowerment isn't about pretending you don't care. It's about having the courage to act on what you do. We get into: -Why "attract, don't chase" has become one of the internet's biggest dating myths -The difference between making the first move and chasing someone who isn't interested -Why so many healthy relationships never begin because neither person acts -The psychology behind rejection and why it feels scarier than it really is -How dating coaches have rebranded passivity as empowerment -The biggest lesson my healthiest relationship taught me about initiative -Why there is no "chooser" and "chosen" in healthy dating -How history still shapes the way women think about making the first move -Why the real prize isn't being chosen (and what it actually is) This episode isn't about telling women they should always make the first move. It's about questioning why we've been taught that expressing genuine interest somehow makes us less valuable. Because the most empowering thing you can do isn't waiting for life to happen to you. It's realizing that your future is shaped by the opportunities you're willing to create. The best relationships aren't built on games, power, or pretending not to care. They're built when two people are brave enough to stop waiting and start choosing.

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  Episode #29

  calling her a pick me makes you one

  Jul 28, 202615 minS1

  0:00 a harmful or helpful label? 1:16 i was the pick me 2:53 the stereotype that created me 4:08 the labels original empowerment 5:22 the problematic shift 6:23 was that pick me of me? 7:19 women are allowed to like things 9:27 women can never win 10:07 limiting what a woman can be 13:03 destroying the mold Pick me. Choose me. Love me. The word pick me has taken the internet by storm and has helped many (including myself), identify their own internalized misogyny. But what starts as a useful way to identify harmful behavior can slowly become a new set of rules for how women are allowed to exist. In this episode of Touching Grass, we explore how the meaning of "pick me" has evolved, why the label originally mattered, and how its overuse may now be reinforcing the same gender stereotypes it was created to challenge. Because somewhere along the way, the conversation stopped being about seeking male validation And started becoming another way to police women's interests. We get into: -What it actually means to be a "pick me" -How internalized misogyny shaped my own experiences growing up -Why so many girls distance themselves from stereotypically feminine interests -How online language evolves and changes meaning over time -The difference between seeking male validation and simply having different interests -Why women should be free to enjoy both traditionally feminine and masculine hobbies -How labels can unintentionally reinforce the very stereotypes they're meant to dismantle -The impossible standards women are expected to meet online -Why women are criticized no matter which version of femininity they choose -How we can move beyond labels and allow women to exist as complex, multidimensional people This episode isn't about defending "pick me" behavior. It's about asking whether we've become so focused on calling it out that we've started creating a new mold for what women are allowed to be. Because women don't need a smaller box. They need no box at all. The goal was never to replace one stereotype with another. It was to create a world where women are free to define themselves.

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  Episode #28

  why you sound exactly like the last person who explained your feelings (and don’t even realize it)

  Jul 21, 202620 minS1

  You're probably not thinking as independently as you believe. Not because you aren't intelligent. But because the first person who explains your pain often shapes how you understand it. In this episode of Touching Grass, we explore the hidden power of language, why words shape the way we see the world, and how social media personalities, political movements, and online ideologies influence our thinking simply by giving us an explanation that feels true. Because words don't just describe reality. They create the lens through which we experience it. We get into: -Why everyone online is starting to sound the same -How language shapes your worldview without you realizing it -Why we're drawn to commentary videos and long-form podcasts -The psychology behind why the first explanation for your pain is so persuasive -How cognitive biases like anchoring bias and the illusory truth effect influence belief -Why being articulate isn't the same as being correct -How social media spreads ideas the same way it spreads trends -Why labels help us understand the world but also flatten its complexity -The relationship between language, emotion, and independent thinking -How political movements, internet subcultures, and online communities use repeated language to shape belief -Why learning to articulate your own thoughts is one of the greatest forms of freedom This isn't about distrusting every opinion you hear online. It's about recognizing how easily someone else's words can become your own. Because the most influential people aren't always the smartest. They're often the first to give your emotions a story. The more you understand the power of language, the easier it becomes to think for yourself. And maybe that's one of the most valuable skills you can develop in a world where everyone is trying to tell you what to think.

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