Transforming Us Podcast

Redeeming Relationship Patterns to Find Security and Wholeness Join Jess Vangsnes and Tamara Brown, trauma-informed relationship coaches and longtime friends, as they explore the journey of transforming your life and relationships. In a world where many feel overwhelmed and disconnected in painful relationships, this podcast aims to illuminate the path to breaking free from toxic patterns by using two systems that are highly effective for transformation in relationships: The Enneagram and Attachment Theory. Together, these ladies have a combined 200+ hours of coach training around trauma, Attachment Theory, and the Enneagram in relationships, along with Gottman marriage workshops and parenting support. "Transforming Us" delves into the essentials of cultivating compassion and forging authentic connections while understanding your negative patterns. With resources rooted in understanding your core God-created self through tools like the Enneagram, listeners will discover how to earn secure attachments with others.

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  Episode #36

  Soul Care in Community: A Catalyst for Holistic Transformation (Part 1) with Kaylene Derksen

  Aug 5, 202654 minS3

  Can we really find true rest when our internal world feels just as chaotic as the world around us? In Part 1 of this deeply grounding conversation, we sit down with Kaylene Derksen to explore what it actually means to tend to our inner life. As a trauma-informed spiritual director and the President of the Soul Care Institute, Kaylene helps us all move past the frantic pace of modern culture to cultivate sustainable, life-giving rhythms. We often treat our spiritual life as just one piece of a busy calendar, but Kaylene reminds us that our soul isn't a separate category—it is our whole self. Together, we dive into how moving through loss can awaken our inner life, why technology leaves us feeling so fragmented, and how ancient practices like hospitality, community, and the intentional art of retreat can restore our sense of internal safety with ourselves, others and Jesus. If you are feeling hurried, exhausted, or longing for a deeper connection with God, this episode is a gentle invitation to slow down, disengage from the noise, and discover how soul care in community serves as the ultimate catalyst for holistic transformation. 3 Main Things You Will Hear About A Journey into Soul Care Leadership: How Kaylene stepped into leading the Soul Care Institute, the profound role of spiritual mentorship, and the task of carrying forward the rich legacy of teachers like Dallas Willard and Steve Smith. The Soul as Your "Whole" Self: Why spiritual formation isn't just an item on a checklist, but a holistic journey toward internal integration, safety, and addressing the fragmentation caused by modern culture. The Healing Power of Sacred Spaces: How intentional hospitality, shared community, and the practical art of pulling away for a retreat can uniquely awaken the inner life and deepen your connection with God. Kaylene Derksen is a trauma-informed spiritual director and the President of the Soul Care Institute. With decades of ministry experience spanning youth pastoring, worship leadership, and multicultural missions both in the U.S. and in Germany, Kaylene’s work is rooted in a deep commitment to helping leaders attend to the movements of their inner life, cultivate sustainable rhythms, and grow in awareness of God's presence in everyday experience. ✨ Memorable Quotes "Our soul is our whole, not just a piece of us." "Wholeness is what God designed us to live in." "Community is where the divine and the miraculous happen." Connect & Resources Learn More: Visit SoulCareInstitute.com to explore retreats, 2027 cohorts, and training. Get in Touch: Reach out to Kaylene directly at Kaylene@soulcareinstitute.com . Recommended Reading: Dive deeper into the foundations of spiritual formation with the teachings of Steve Smith and the works of Dallas Willard (such as The Divine Conspiracy or Renovation of the Heart ). Discover more about our coaching and resources at our website transformingus.org . Lots of FREE guides and assessments for your journey. Do you need help understanding your patterns? Book your FREE 30 min discovery call today! Go to Connect . Youtube: @transformingus Instagram: @transformingus Facebook: @transformingus

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  Episode #35

  Friendship with Jesus and Learning to Be Loved, Part 2, with Adam Ormord (Type 4)

  Jul 22, 202636 minS3

  In part two of this dual-release conversation, Adam Ormord turns the microphone over to Jess Vangsnes to explore her unique inner landscape. Jess opens up about the foundational relationships that have profoundly shaped her walk with Jesus, focusing heavily on how her marriage has served as a crucible for learning to be truly loved and secure in her identity as the Beloved. They discuss the vital importance of "same-direction friendships" and community in a shared pilgrimage. Jess also introduces art as a form of deep prayer and leads listeners through an immersive, imaginative exercise inspired by the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius of Loyola—allowing you to physically and emotionally embody what it looks like to walk alongside Jesus as a true friend and guide. Key Topics Covered: The Inward Pilgrimage: Exploring our interior landscapes and naming where we are spiritually. Marriage as Formation: How the intimacy of marriage shapes our capacity to accept God's love. Imaginative Prayer: A guided Ignatian inspired exercise to experience Jesus as a same direction pilgrim friend. Community on the Road: Finding and cultivating friendships that walk in the same spiritual direction. Resources & Links Connect with Adam: LifePoint Resources | The Sacred Way Community | The Being Formed Podcast Connect with Jess: Transforming Us Website | Transforming Us Podcast on Apple | Shiny Eyes Retreat

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  Episode #34

  Walking with Jesus and The Power of Pilgrimage, Part 1, with Adam Ormord (Type 4)

  Jul 8, 202642 minS3

  Welcome to this special, dual-release episode kicking off a beautiful two-part conversation! In this episode, Adam Ormord of LifePoint Ministries and Jess Vangsnes of Transforming Us Coaching connect over their shared passion for spiritual formation, soul care, and relational connection. Adam shares profound personal stories from his time walking the physical trail of the Camino de Santiago, exploring how pilgrimage serves as a powerful metaphor for our daily spiritual life. Together, Adam and Jess dive into how early attachment patterns shape our view of God, the transformational shift of learning to "listen softer" to His voice, and what it means to rest under the loving gaze of Jesus. Stay tuned for part two of this conversation, where the tables turn and Adam asks Jess about the specific relationships that helped her lean into becoming the beloved of Jesus. Key Topics Covered: The Metaphor of Pilgrimage: The deep significance of intentional journeys in the spiritual life. Listening Softer: Practical steps to slow down, practice presence, and attune to God in ordinary rhythms. Attachment Theory & Faith: How our relational wiring impacts our ability to trust and experience God's constant love. Relational Spirituality: Moving away from performing for God and stepping into secure connection and joy. Resources Connect with Adam: LifePoint Resources | The Sacred Way Community | The Being Formed Podcast Discover more about our coaching and resources at our website transformingus.org . Lots of FREE guides and assessments for your journey. Do you need help understanding your patterns? Book your FREE 30 min discovery call today! Go to Connect . Youtube: @transformingus Instagram: @transformingus Facebook: @transformingus

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  Episode #33

  Seeing Your Enneagram Parts and Listening to Wise Self Leadership

  Jun 24, 202627 minS1

  Get comfortable—this episode will completely shift how you see your inner world. What if your protective parts aren’t just your personality but sophisticated strategies rooted in survival? Discover how each Enneagram type develops unique, necessary parts that shield their deepest wounds—and how understanding these can unlock your true you. We dive deep into the hidden motivations behind Enneagram numbers 1 through 9. You'll discover how perfectionism, overgiving, achievement, melancholy, detachment, enthusiasm, strength, peacekeeping, and passivity are all sub-personality tactics, designed to keep you safe from feeling controlled, unworthy, unseen, or afraid. But here’s the truth: these strategies may try to keep you safe, but they also keep you stuck. The real breakthrough? Learning how to gently invite your wise true self to rise up and lead your parts. Disclaimer: This episode is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for clinical therapy. It aims to help people see how these tools can work seamlessly together, not in conflict. In this eye-opening episode, you'll explore: How your inner protector shields your vulnerable parts—and why that might be sabotaging your growth The specific ‘containing codes’ of each Enneagram type that keep pain at bay The surprising ways childhood wounds shape your current survival strategies Practical tools to shift from unconscious guarding to conscious healing How embracing your authentic self can transform relationships, work, and your very sense of worth If you're tired of feeling trapped by your own defenses—if you’re ready to step into the fullness of who you truly are—this episode is your pivotal moment. The strategies you learn here aren’t just theoretical—they’re life-changing. When you understand the protective parts that have been running the show, you hold the power to finally let your true self flourish. This isn’t just about self-awareness; it’s about reclaiming your wholeness. Perfect for anyone seeking healing, growth, and genuine authenticity. Are you ready to meet your parts with compassion and unlock the deep well of strength within? Hit play and begin the journey to your most authentic self. Your transformation starts now. Check our Airbnb listings: Entire Retreat (sleeps 12) Cozy Cabin (sleeps 3) Shipping Container (sleeps 3) Geodesic Dome (sleeps 5) Discover more about our coaching and resources at our website transformingus.org . Lots of FREE guides and assessments for your journey. Do you need help understanding your patterns? Book your FREE 30 min discovery call today! Go to Connect . Youtube: @transformingus Instagram: @transformingus Facebook: @transformingus

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  Episode #32

  Becoming Curious About Attachment and Parts Work

  Jun 10, 202618 minS1

  Unlock the secret to transforming your deepest relational wounds—your attachment style—and finally find the security you’ve been craving. If past hurts, fear of abandonment, or relentless pursuit of love keep you stuck, this episode will shatter those barriers and ignite real change. Imagine understanding how your childhood survival parts—shaped by insecure attachment—fuel your current relationships and inner pain, which can come from younger parts. Discover how vulnerable parts develop—like a forgotten child inside—and how they influence your patterns of pulling away, pursuing, or freezing. You’ll see how these hidden parts try to protect you, often without your even realizing it, and how they hold the key to genuine connection. We break down: The four attachment styles—dismissive, anxious, fearful, and secure—and the unseen parts behind each. How childhood experiences forge protective parts that surface in adult relationships. Practical steps to integrate these younger parts with your wise, adult self through biblical truths and self-leadership. The role of God's perfect love in healing fears and rewiring survival strategies for lasting security. This episode isn’t just theory—it’s your pathway back to wholeness. Missing this means staying trapped in hurt, confusion, and relational chaos. Embrace the opportunity to radically shift your inner landscape and rewrite your self-story. Whether your heart aches for safety or you long to lead your parts with compassion, this episode is your call to freedom. Prepare to face yourself honestly, lean into God’s love, and start the journey toward true attachment—because you deserve a love that heals and a life that flourishes. Are you ready to reclaim your inner peace and foster authentic connections? Tune in now and let your wholeness begin today. Disclaimer: This episode is for educational purposes only and is not a replacement for clinical therapy. It aims to help people see how these tools can work seamlessly together, not in conflict. Check our Airbnb listings: Entire Retreat (sleeps 12) Cozy Cabin (sleeps 3) Shipping Container (sleeps 3) Geodesic Dome (sleeps 5) Discover more about our coaching and resources at our website transformingus.org . Lots of FREE guides and assessments for your journey. Do you need help understanding your patterns? Book your FREE 30 min discovery call today! Go to Connect . Youtube: @transformingus Instagram: @transformingus Facebook: @transformingus

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