
Trench Talk
Ep. 337: Caring for members with unbelieving spouses
Contact us. We’d love to serve you Request a stay at a Shepherd’s House Location Give financially to support the work of helping pastors thrive Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify (02:01) Biblical foundations: Ephesians 5/Colossians 3 ideal, 1 Peter 3, Matthew 10's "sword" (04:46) 1 Corinthians 7 and the evangelistic hope of winning a spouse (05:37) Caveat: 1 Peter 3 must never justify staying in an abusive marriage (07:04) First step: identify whether the spouse is supportive, indifferent, or hostile (09:44) Handling hostile spouses: non-negotiables vs. "not poking the bear" (11:24) Prioritizing commitments and working around church scheduling (13:45) Creative service when giving is restricted (meals instead of tithing) (14:53) Pastor initiating contact with the husband; Jim's own teenage conversion story (17:16) Disarming through shared interests, hired work, and low-pressure men's gatherings (20:25) Guidance for believing husbands: godliness and sacrificial love, not demanding authority (23:02) The pastor's real goal: help the believer live faithfully, not "win" the spouse (24:56) Closing word and p


