
Episode #179
Andrew Hurteau: When Does Preparation Become Performance?
The stakes go up. So you prepare more. Then you prepare some more. And somewhere along the way, you stop sounding like yourself. On this episode of Truth Tastes Funny , Hersh Rephun sits down with performance coach Andrew Hurteau , who has spent 35 years helping actors, speakers, executives, and leaders show up when it matters. His background runs from Shakespeare and stage combat to coaching leaders and teams at organizations including Meta, Dolby, Gartner, The North Face, and Kaiser Permanente. Pasted text The conversation starts with a deceptively simple question: When does preparing to be yourself become performing somebody else? Andrew argues that performance itself isn’t the problem. Athletes perform. Actors perform. Speakers perform. The trouble begins when preparation turns into something so polished, scripted, or memorized that the person disappears behind it. For Andrew, memorization is often the enemy of authenticity. Rehearsal is useful. Familiarity is useful. Preparation is essential. But sounding like you’re reciting something you wrote three weeks ago? Not so much. Pasted text Hersh and Andrew get into acting, stand-up, keynote speaking, trust, authority, audience psychology, and why the best actors can say the same line for the 80th time and still make it sound like they just thought of it. Pasted text They also explore something leaders often get wrong: The audience is not there to watch you demonstrate that you deserve to be in the room. If you already have the stage, a degree of authority has already been granted. Trying too hard to prove it can actually diminish trust. Andrew’s advice is almost the opposite: engage, listen, ask questions, read the room, and make the audience feel like they’re the reason you’re there. Pasted text And that leads to one of the strongest ideas in the conversation: Authenticity doesn’t mean winging it. It doesn’t mean being unprepared, unfocused, or proudly off the cuff. It means preparing in a way that still sounds like you when the moment arrives. Pasted text At its heart, this episode asks: How do you prepare enough to be ready without preparing so much that you disappear? Andrew LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrew-hurteau-2a812061/ *** Subscribe for exclusive content: https://www.butterfieldspeaks.com/andrew/ *** Butterfield Speaks LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/butterfield-speaks Butterfield Speaks Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ButterfieldSpeaks -- Hersh's new book, SELLING THE TRUTH: A ‘Semoir’ with Insights for Life & Business is a semi memoir drawing on his adventures as an Authority Advisor and Standup Comedian. It is part business book, part happiness formula for life, and an amuseful read, whether you’re building a business or burnishing your self-image. You can kickstart your own messaging evolution with a one-on-one 5-Minute Fix . Take the 60-second Get Off Your Assets Quiz, and find other resources here: https://www.hershrephun.com/selling-the-truth/






