
Episode #85
Is Homeownership Right for You? Ep #85
Upthinking Finance™ is now trademarked In this Step One edition, we tackle one of the most pressing topics for the younger generation: homeownership. With home prices rising dramatically faster than incomes, buying a home today requires more thoughtful planning, saving, and strategy than ever before. We explore the reality of the home-buying journey, break down the economics behind the decision, and discuss the psychological and social factors at play. Whether you’re contemplating purchasing a home, thinking about renting long-term, or considering alternative living arrangements, we’ll walk you through the pros and cons to help you align your financial decisions with your personal values. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in... [00:00] Housing affordability challenges [02:13] Divergence of home prices and household incomes over 40 years [05:51] Understanding property taxes and expenses [07:07] Renting as an alternative to homeownership [09:22] Psychological aspects of homeownership [11:27] Aligning financial decisions with values [15:17] Alternatives for non-homeowners [18:58] The importance of deliberation and value-driven decisions The New Landscape of Homeownership The path to owning a home in 2026 looks radically different than in decades past, home prices have soared dramatically—outpacing income growth by a substantial margin. In 1985, the average home in the United States cost $83,800, while the average household income was $24,000. Fast forward to 2025, and the median home price now stands at $427,000, with average incomes rising to $84,000. But herein lies the problem: while incomes rose by 250%, home prices skyrocketed by over 400% 02:13. This gap leaves around 65% of US households priced out of the housing market, and in some states like Montana and Wyoming, over 80% of people cannot afford to buy a home 03:05. Prospective buyers also face rising ancillary costs: property taxes (which fund not just local government, but schools, libraries, and community projects), homeowners association (HOA) fees, and unpredictable special assessments. These expenses aren’t static, for instance, HOAs in many places can raise fees by up to 20% annually without a resident vote—a sobering reality for first-time buyers. Renting, Investing, and the Myth of the “Forever Home” So is renting really so bad? For many, the stigma of “renting forever” comes not from personal preference, but from social and generational pressures. Family expectations, cultural norms, and social media portrayals can make it seem as though owning a home is the only path to adulthood and financial security. But the truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all answer. Your financial decisions should support the life you actually want to build—not someone else’s vision. For many, renting offers advantages such as flexibility, reduced maintenance responsibilities, and the freedom to allocate funds toward experiences or alternative investments. Conversely, homeownership may bring stability, the potential for equity growth, and a sense of permanence—but also increasing costs and less mobility. Whose Dream Are You Chasing? Before thinking about buying, ask yourself honestly why you want to own your own home. Is it to fulfill your own aspirations, or is it an inherited measure of success from family or society? When your financial choices align with your personal values, you’re far more likely to experience lasting satisfaction and resilience—even when economic reality complicates the journey. Having the space to shape your own goals without judgment is crucial, especially given economic dynamics that differ markedly from the previous generation’s experience. Deliberation over Destiny Nobody has any control over the time they were born or the economics that affect them. Whether you buy, rent, or chart a new course entirely, the key is deliberate action rooted in your values—not external expectations. The best financial plan is an adaptable one, ready to support your unique ambitions—whatever shape they take. Homeownership may still hold value, but today, so do creativity, flexibility, and self-understanding. The question isn’t just can you buy?—it’s also should you?, and most importantly, what will bring fulfillment to your life right now? Securities and Advisory services offered through LPL Financial. A registered investment advisor. Member FINRA & SIPC. The financial professionals associated with LPL Financial may discuss and/or transact business only with residents of the states in which they are properly registered or licensed. No offers may be made or accepted from any resident of any other state. Connect with Emerson Fersch and Amy LeNoble Capital Investment Advisers On LinkedIn Subscribe to Upthinking Finance Audio Production and Show Notes by - PODCAST FAST TRACK

