We Do Whatever It Takes

We are a Magician & an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and we do whatever it takes to have a thriving marriage. We have tips and tricks to help you do the same! (Disclaimer: this is not therapy and Kimberly is not acting as your therapist on this podcast. If you need therapy, please seek professional help from your mental health provider).

We Do Whatever It Takes is a society podcast hosted by Danny Ray and Kimberly, with 63 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Danny Ray and Kimberly hosts We Do Whatever It Takes, a society show with 63 episodes published.

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  Episode #10

  S5:E10- Grace vs. Rescuing

  Oct 30, 202523 minS5

  <p>Send a text</p><p>In this episode, Danny and Kimberly unpack the powerful difference between grace and rescuing. Grace means loving with truth—while rescuing means taking responsibility for someone else’s growth. Together they explore what happens when our motivation shifts from love and empathy to fear and control, and how that small shift can quietly lead to resentment and burnout.</p><p><br/></p><p>They’ll walk through “The Grace With Boundaries Model,” contrasting the heart behind grace versus rescuing, and share practical tools for discerning your own motivations. You’ll learn to ask key questions li...

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  Episode #9

  S5:E9 Joe and Traci Castaneda The Power of Intentional Grace

  Oct 23, 202532 minS5

  <p>Send a text</p><p>In this special first-ever interview on We Do Whatever It Takes, Danny and Kimberly sit down with longtime friends Joe and Tracy Castañeda to talk about the real, everyday ways grace shows up in marriage. From high school sweethearts to nearly three decades of marriage and ministry, the Castañedas share candidly about the ups and downs of life together, long-distance dating before cell phones, learning to extend “undeserved kindness” in the middle of parenting chaos, and the courage it takes to break out of ruts.</p><p>The conversation also explores the vision...

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  Episode #6

  S5:E6—Grace Reloaded: Daily Forgiveness and Fresh Starts

  Oct 2, 202527 minS5

  <p>Send a text</p><p>Grace isn’t a one-time drop—it’s a daily reload. In this lively, practical, and hope-filled conversation, Danny (magician and pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) explore how to give and receive fresh grace every day. They unpack why forgiveness is both a process and a choice, bust the “forgive and forget” myth, and share real-life marriage examples—complete with laughter, honesty, and a few “hypothetical” Amazon jokes.</p><p>Listeners will learn:</p>How to start each morning by receiving God’s new mercies (Lamentations 3:22-23)Ways to speak daily grace over your spouse w...

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  Episode #5

  S5:E5—Transforming Conflict into Connection

  Sep 25, 202521 minS5

  <p>Send a text</p><p>Danny Ray (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (AMFT) unpack what <b>real, costly grace</b> looks like in marriage — and why “cheap grace” (Bonhoeffer’s warning) often masquerades as forgiveness while bitterness quietly grows. Drawing on 29 years of marriage (and yes — a very messy paint story), they show how surprising, intentional acts of grace (“grace grenades”) can defuse conflict, invite repentance, and actually transform a relationship — but only when grace costs us something.</p><p>In this episode you’ll hear:</p>The difference between <b>cheap grace</b> and <b>real grace</b> (Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s insig...

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  Episode #4

  S5:E4—How Forgiveness Resets a Marriage

  Sep 18, 202520 minS5

  <p>Send a text</p><p>Welcome back to We Do Whatever It Takes! 🎙️ Danny (magician & pastor) and Kimberly (associate marriage & family therapist) share real-life lessons from 29 years of marriage—plus one very messy paint story—to show how <b>unexpected grace can defuse conflict and build deeper connection</b>.</p><p>In this episode you’ll discover:</p>Why Romans 5:8 is the ultimate “grace grenade.”How to break predictable patterns of criticism, withdrawal, and defensiveness.Practical ways to surprise your spouse with love and forgiveness—even in the middle of a mess.<p>Whether you’re newly married or decades in, these s...

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