
We're Going There with Bianca Juarez
Ep 206: Stop Avoiding the Hard Talk / The Mess of Mentoring Series Day 3 with Amy Ayala and Bianca Juarez
Is the fear of damaging a relationship stopping you from having a difficult conversation? I’ve been there, and I know how isolating that tension can feel. But here is the truth: wounds from a friend can be trusted, and real growth only happens when we’re willing to go there. In this episode, Amy and I are pulling back the curtain on what it really looks like to lead, mentor, and disciple in the messy reality of ministry. We’re talking about the "relational collateral" required to speak truth into someone’s life and how to correct in love without crushing their spirit. Whether you’re navigating past trauma that’s showing up in your leadership or learning how to handle a tough sermon critique, this conversation is for you. It’s time we stop settling for surface-level peace and start pursuing the spiritual maturity that comes through honest, grace-filled accountability. If this episode challenged or encouraged you, tag @biancajuarezofficial and @amylynnettee on social media. Don’t forget to subscribe and drop a comment sharing one way you’re choosing growth over comfort this week. Let’s keep going there together! Love you, B Keywords: mentorship, discipleship, ministry leadership, conflict resolution, spiritual formation. RESOURCES/LINKS Sound Bite to Share: ** Chapter Timestamps 00:00 Introduction to the importance of tough conversations 02:02 The theology of correction and trust 02:27 Personal stories of tension and disappointment 04:13 Roots of disappointment and past trauma 07:25 The process of spiritual maturity and circumcision 08:14 Handling hard conversations with love and grace 12:07 Time management and respect in ministry 13:31 Correcting in love versus control 17:46 The military mindset in leadership and correction 20:24 Gender, opportunity, and development in ministry 24:54 Handling feedback and sermon critique 28:29 The importance of honesty and growth in preaching 32:02 Walking through seasons of change and transition 37:41 Ending well and honoring relationships 38:03 Encouragement for wounded mentees 41:44 Closing thoughts and next steps for listeners Resources & Links Follow Amy Ayala: https://www.instagram.com/amylynnettee/?hl=en Bianca’s Book: Grit Don't Quit: Developing Resilience And Faith When Giving Up Isn't An Option. https://amzn.to/3MO74OC Bible Study: Grit Don’t Quit Bible Study https://www.biancajuaerzofficial.com/gdq All Resources: Learn more about books and other resources from Bianca. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/resources Support Subscribe + Leave a Review: Don’t miss an episode! Find We’re Going There on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. Stay Connected: Join the community today. https://www.biancajuarezofficial.com/ WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@BiancaJuarezOfficial Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/biancajuarezofficial/ Thank You to Our Sponsors! We’re Going There is Sponsored by: HomeChef: Go to HomeChef.com/WGT for 50% OFF your first box and free dessert for life! Must be an active subscriber to receive free dessert. http://tinyurl.com/WGTHomeChef BetterHelp: Visit BetterHelp.com/GOINGTHERE today to get 10% off. http://tinyurl.com/WGTBetterHelp Youtube: https://youtu.be/R-Dgj9xiokU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices



