
Episode #219
219 | A Quickie on Outsourcing Your Power: Whose Approval Are You Still Seeking?
Many of us learned that goodness was attached to obedience, obedience to approval, approval to belonging, and belonging to safety. Before long, we became experts at reading the room without ever learning how to read ourselves. Even as grown women, we can find ourselves self-censoring, overexplaining, and organizing our lives around what our parents, friends, communities, or people on the internet might think. This isn’t a simplified “fuck what they think and do whatever you want” conversation. It is an invitation to notice who is sitting on the imaginary board of directors for your life. Whose approval are you seeking? Whose needs are you prioritizing over your own? And why are you giving your power to people—or systems—that may not even know how to wield their own? You can remain in relationship, consider other perspectives, and take in all the information in the world without surrendering your authority. The deeper work is learning to filter those voices through your own lived experience and intuitive knowing, so you can build a firmer foundation within yourself, reconnect with what you know, and bring your power and magic home. In this episode, I explore: How purity culture shapes women even outside organized religion The connection between obedience, approval, belonging, and emotional safety Why women learn to read the room before learning to read themselves How fear of judgment leads to self-censorship and overexplaining The parents, friends, communities, and systems holding an imaginary vote in our lives The difference between considering other perspectives and surrendering your authority Questions to help you identify where you are outsourcing your power Rebuilding self-trust and reconnecting with your inner knowing Be sure to hit subscribe so you never miss the latest episode! Connect with Emily: Website: www.EmilyReuschel.com Instagram: @emilyreuschel Facebook: Emily Reuschel LinkedIn: Emily Reuschel Join my Book Insiders List: Sign up here! Resources and Links: Sign up here to get the inside scoop to my book writing journey! Book me as a speaker for your next event - email inquiries to emilyreuschel@gmail.com or schedule a call here Wild & Waking – Produced by Jill Carr Podcasting | Learn More






