
Episode #43
Burnout Recovery | Recalibrating Your Work Stress Expectations
Contact us by whatsapp on +447485622662- let us know what you think of this episode. Burnout recovery starts with honest expectations. In this episode, Cheryl Paris shares why your work stress doesn't come from what you're doing—it comes from what you *expect* it to look like. Discover the silent expectations killing high-achievers' energy, plus three stress recovery techniques to recalibrate before burnout takes hold. For managers, perfectionists, and capable women carrying invisible loads. Success can be a trap when the only version you accept is “more, faster, higher.” I’m Cheryl Paris, and I’m joined by Dr Carla Caturia for a grounded, honest conversation about work stress, anxiety, and the quiet panic that hits when you even think about slowing down. If you’ve been pushing through exhaustion because rest feels like losing, we start where real rebuilding begins: your definition of success, the real one. Dr. Catua shares a powerful reframe from her work with athletes and high performers: outcomes matter, but the journey has to count. We talk about why chasing promotions, praise, or perfect results can keep you stuck in external validation and burnout, and how to shift toward learning, growth, and sustainable progress. You’ll hear practical goal-setting strategies that make ambition safer, including how to “chunk” big goals into small daily actions so you actually follow through, build consistency, and gather evidence that you can do hard things. We also go deeper on identity. When your job title becomes your identity, work starts to control your self-worth. We explore how to separate who you are from what you produce, how to widen your life beyond the nine-to-five, and what it looks like to build purpose through values, family, community, and legacy. To make it actionable, Dr. Catua offers a simple weekly reset: plan time off if you can, set two to three priority tasks to complete by 11 a.m., and limit email checks to twice a day to protect your focus and energy. If this helped you breathe a little easier, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s carrying too much, and leave a review so more people can find Work Stress Anxiety. The contents of this podcast are for informational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. If you have a specific health concern or condition, please consult a qualified Healthcare professional for more details. Check out herguru dot uk forward slash disclaimers Support the show Got feedback, a question, or a future episode suggestion? https://podcastfeedback.com/workstressanxiety Work Stress Anxiety by ABGW is part of HerGuru Hypnotherapy and Coaching™ and grounded in the ABGW Method®. Calm first. Reality first. Then change.™ Connect with Cheryl Paris LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cherylparis/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abgwblog Shared stories are anonymised. This podcast is provided for educational and self- reflective purposes only and does not constitute medical, psychological, legal, workplace, or professional advice. Disclaimer: https://herguru.uk/disclaimers/ © Cheryl Paris. Copyright 2026. All rights reserved.






