
Episode #193
Embracing All Sides: Embrace the Complete Story- Jay Doran Returns
Jay Duran on Letting Go, Sharing More, and Reclaiming Your Full Voice Host John Duffin welcomes returning guest and friend of the podcast, Jay Duran of Culture Matters. As a host, it’s important to me to honor each guest with a unique conversation, rather than a rehash of greatest hits. Jay has accomplished a lot in a short amount of time, and I've been thrilled to have Jay as a guest on my podcast numerous times. Today marks a shift in the conversation. Jay’s shift toward more personal, behind-the-curtain writing and sharing, including recent social media posts and blogs discussing personal matters, brings the culture to a whole new level. Jay explains that after a decade of building his company and writing extensively for clients, he realized he never stopped writing—he stopped writing for himself—and now wants his private and public life, writing, and advisory work to align. We discuss how suffering, limited options, rejection, and risk shape entrepreneurs, and how success can create blind spots that require unlearning. Jay uses The Odyssey as a metaphor for letting go of outcomes and returning “home”. The business model grows as Culture Matters focuses beyond results, money, and case studies-while also describing renewed creative projects, upcoming speaking engagements, and the realization of recognizing that his story can inform the work without replacing the work. Definitely worth a watch (or several)! We also referenced very powerful previous podcasts that influenced my line of questioning. Here are the links. Dropping Bombs (Ep 78) - Are meetings important for company culture https://youtu.be/PfFKg4jQH3I?si=h3S8uacebiXQSjDT Control Or Be Controlled: Are You In Control Of Your Life? https://youtu.be/sshpDUQGYdQ?si=MUy1IQrL6NZWzhyZ 00:00 Letting Go Odyssey 00:54 Podcast Welcome 01:31 Jay Returns Again 04:23 Integration Season 06:30 Shame Post Shift 07:58 Writing For Self 10:42 Pride And Layers 14:38 Pain Fuels Risk 20:01 Why Share Shame 21:26 Authenticity Online 24:09 Ferrari Back On 24:57 Going Home Metaphor 27:10 Completeness And Learning 28:36 Unlearning And Writing 31:07 Sharing Thoughts Publicly 32:18 Books Leadership, and Culture 33:30 Love Of Speaking 36:50 Story Versus Brand 40:06 Owning Your Leadership 43:00 Marriage And Not Alone 44:04 Transparency With Purpose 45:35 Who Your Content Attracts 50:40 Brad Lea Episode Reflection 55:02 Learning Unlearning Together 56:09 Closing and Sign-Off






