Your Self Love Bestie

A Bit of Positivity presents Your Self Love BestieYour Self Love Bestie is your ultimate guide to glowing up and becoming your best self. Hosted by Kit C., your biggest cheerleader, this podcast brings you a daily dose of self-love, empowerment, and positivity. Whether you're looking for practical glow-up tips, confidence-boosting advice, or just a bit of motivation, Kit C. is here to support you every step of the way. With inspiring conversations and actionable insights, you'll feel empowered to shine from the inside out and embrace the best version of yourself.

Your Self Love Bestie is a education podcast hosted by Kit C., with 87 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80. PitchCentric scores this show on Booking Probability, Listen Score, and live audience signals refreshed every 24 hours.

Kit C. hosts Your Self Love Bestie, a education show with 87 episodes published.

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  Stop Over-Explaining Your No

  Aug 26, 202625 min

  Why does saying “no” sometimes turn into a five-paragraph essay? If you’ve ever declined an invitation, set a boundary, or asked for space — and then immediately felt the need to explain, apologize, justify, and make sure nobody was mad at you — this episode is for you. In Part 2 of the Boundaries Series , we’re talking about why over-explaining is often less about communication and more about seeking permission for our boundaries. We’ll unpack people-pleasing, the fear of being misunderstood, the difference between kindness and over-explaining, and how to start giving clear, loving answers without putting your needs on trial. Your challenge this week? Practice one clean no . No dissertation. No panic follow-up text. No courtroom evidence. A boundary isn’t a negotiation you have to win. ️ Part 2 of the Boundaries Series XO, Kit C Website: https://www.yourselflovebestie.com Follow us on IG: @yourselflovebff TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abitofpositivity_

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  Why People Get Mad When You Finally Set Boundaries

  Aug 19, 202630 min

  Have you ever finally said “no” and suddenly you’re the problem? When you’ve spent years being the accommodating one, setting boundaries can feel uncomfortable — especially when the people around you don’t like the new version of you. In this episode of Your Self-Love Bestie , we’re talking about why people sometimes push back when you stop overgiving, why someone else’s disappointment doesn’t automatically mean you’ve done something wrong, and how boundaries can reveal who respected you versus who simply benefited from your lack of them. We’re getting into guilt, people-pleasing, the infamous “you’ve changed,” and how to hold your boundary without abandoning yourself just to keep the peace. Because bestie, maybe you didn’t become difficult. Maybe you just became harder to take advantage of. ️ Part 1 of the Boundaries Series XO, Kit C Website: https://www.yourselflovebestie.com Follow us on IG: @yourselflovebff TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abitofpositivity_

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  The Silent Ways We Abandon Ourselves (And How to Stop)

  Aug 5, 202629 min

  What if the person you've been abandoning the most... is yourself? Self-abandonment doesn't always look dramatic. More often, it's found in the quiet moments—saying "yes" when you want to say "no," ignoring your intuition, settling for less than you deserve, over-explaining yourself, or putting everyone else's needs ahead of your own. In this episode of Your Self-Love Bestie , we're uncovering the subtle ways we disconnect from ourselves and exploring why so many of us learned to trade our authenticity for acceptance. Together, we'll talk about where these patterns come from, how they impact our relationships, careers, and self-worth, and the small but powerful steps you can take to reconnect with the most important relationship you'll ever have—the one with yourself. Because self-love isn't just about affirmations, bubble baths, or treating yourself. It's about honoring your needs, trusting your inner voice, creating healthy boundaries, and choosing yourself, even when it's uncomfortable. If you've ever felt exhausted from constantly giving, struggled to trust your own instincts, or wondered why you keep putting yourself last, this episode is your invitation to come home to yourself. Remember, every time you choose yourself with love, you remind yourself that you were never too much—you were always enough. XO, Kit C Website: https://www.yourselflovebestie.com Follow us on IG: @yourselflovebff TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abitofpositivity_

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  You’re Not Asking for Too Much — You’re Asking the Wrong Person

  May 13, 202618 min

  Have you ever been made to feel like your needs were “too much”? In this empowering episode of Your Self-Love Bestie , we’re breaking down the truth: you’re not asking for too much — you’re asking the wrong person. This episode dives into self-worth, relationship standards, and emotional availability. If you’ve ever overgiven, settled, or questioned your value in love, this conversation will help you reconnect with your worth and raise your standards unapologetically. We talk about the difference between healthy expectations and overcompensating, why the wrong people make you feel difficult, and how to call in aligned, emotionally safe relationships. If you’re on a self-love journey, healing from toxic patterns, or learning to choose yourself — this episode is for you. ✨ You deserve a love that meets you, not one you have to beg for. XO, Kit C Website: https://www.yourselflovebestie.com Follow us on IG: @yourselflovebff TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abitofpositivity_

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  The Moment You Stop Chasing Is When Everything Changes

  May 6, 202628 min

  What if the secret to attracting everything you want is simply… letting go? In this episode of Your Self-Love Bestie , we’re talking about detachment, feminine energy, and the powerful shift from chasing to attracting. If you’ve been forcing outcomes in love, career, or life, this episode will show you how to step into alignment and become magnetic. We break down why chasing energy creates resistance, how to release control without giving up, and how to embody the version of you that naturally attracts opportunities, love, and abundance. This is your reminder that what’s meant for you flows — it doesn’t require force. ✨ When you stop chasing, you start receiving. XO, Kit C Website: https://www.yourselflovebestie.com Follow us on IG: @yourselflovebff TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@abitofpositivity_

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