You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

Welcome to You're Doing It Wrong — the raw, real, and refreshingly honest podcast where Wes and Sarah, married for over 25 years, dive into what it really takes to build a lasting relationship. From the awkward beginnings to deep healing, epic fights to unforgettable laughs, we’re sharing the ups, the downs, and everything in between.No fluff. No filters. Just real-life stories, hard-earned wisdom, and powerful lessons from two people who’ve done a lot of things “wrong” — and somehow still found a way to grow deeper in love. Whether you're dating, newly married, in a long-term relationship, or figuring it all out, this is the relationship podcast you didn’t know you needed.Get ready to feel seen, laugh out loud, and maybe even rethink what love means. Let's heal, grow, and connect — together.

You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah is a society podcast hosted by Wes and Sarah Verhoef, with 25 episodes on record and a Required Pod Score of 80.

Wes and Sarah Verhoef hosts You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah, a society show with 25 episodes published.

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  Episode #26

  #26 - 25 Years, 25 Lessons in Love: What We’ve Learned in Marriage | You’re Doing It Wrong Podcast

  Oct 1, 202544 minS1

  <p>We swap heartfelt (and hilarious) stories about:The 25 things Sarah loves and has learned about Wes 💕The 25 things Wes loves and has learned about Sarah 📝How we navigate real-life chaos, parenthood, and partnershipWhy showing up in the “messy middle” matters more than perfectionTips for connection, curiosity, and making conflict about repair—not winningIf you’ve ever wondered what long-lasting love actually looks like behind the scenes, this anniversary episode is for you. Grab a drink, get a snack, and join us for a conversation about marriage, growth, and choosing each other—again and again.🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations about marriage, con...

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  Episode #25

  #25 How to Build Deep Connection & Navigate Marriage Disagreements | You’re Doing It Wrong Podcast

  Oct 1, 202557 minS1

  <p>You’ll also hear insights from other couples on:The disagreements that show up again and againHow they stay united through faith, communication, and teamworkThe unique ways they feel most aligned and connected with each other👉 If you’ve ever wondered whether your marriage struggles are normal—or how to build deeper connection with your partner—this episode will encourage you, make you laugh, and remind you that you’re not alone.Subscribe for more real talk on marriage, connection, faith, and the messy middle that makes love last. </p>

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  Episode #24

  #24 You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

  Sep 13, 202531 minS1

  <p>What happens when your kids grow up, get married, and start building lives of their own? In this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes sit down with Heather and Jason Martin to talk about the joys and challenges of parenting adult children. From learning to give advice only once, to letting kids make their own choices, to supporting marriages without creating family conflict—this conversation is real, honest, and full of wisdom.They also share stories about blending families, navigating roles in childhood homes, and finding joy in watching kids thrive in their unique paths. Whet...

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  Episode #23

  #23 You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

  Sep 13, 202534 minS1

  <p>You're Doing it Wrong | The Funniest & Most Honest Marriage Advice We’ve CollectedIn this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, we (Sarah & Wes) pull back the curtain on nearly 25 years of marriage—the good, the hard, and the hilarious—and share timeless marriage advice that’s helped us (and others) keep choosing each other every day.💍 From funny family stories to wisdom passed down by parents, mentors, and friends, we talk about what really works in marriage—not just clichés, but practical tools you can use to build a relationship that lasts.Here’s what we cover:Why “never go to b...

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  Episode #22

  You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

  Aug 25, 202546 minS1

  <p>What’s the real secret to staying happily married for 25 years? 💍 In this episode of You’re Doing It Wrong, Sarah and Wes get real about their “superpower” of staying married through the good, the bad, the beautiful, and the messy parts of life.We dive into:Why lasting love is a daily choice, not a one-time decisionHow faith, perspective, and eternal commitment shape our marriageLearning and growing at your own pace (and together!)Handling mistakes, miscommunication, and forgivenessRaising kids, driving them to school, and making time for one-on-one connectionWhat we’ve learned from mentors, different communities, and our own childrenW...

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