
Youth Ministry Soulkeeper
Episode 48: When Volunteers Hurt the Ministry Instead of Help
Volunteers are the lifeblood of youth ministry. But what happens when a volunteer becomes the problem? James and Todd open up a conversation most youth leaders have needed to have for a long time.Struggling vs. Toxic: The Core DistinctionBefore you can address toxic behavior, you have to be able to name it. James and Todd walk through the key markers of each:A struggling volunteer: Is going through a hard season and may be temporarily off their game Makes honest mistakes because they’re still learning Responds to feedback with humility and a willingness to grow Genuinely cares about students even when their execution is imperfect A toxic volunteer: Shows consistent patterns of harmful behavior — not one bad day, but a recurring reality Damages students, divides teams, and undermines leadership Deflects, dismisses, or gets defensive when given correction Operates from self-serving motivations: control, ego, personal agenda Key diagnostic question: When you give feedback, how do they respond? Humility and openness are the marks of someone who’s struggling. Defensiveness, deflection, and blame signal something deeper. Links: ADAM KEEHN FOUNDATION https://adamkeehnfoundation.com/ Connect With The Show: Webpage - https://ymsoulkeeper.carrd.co Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088943467640&sk=followers Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ymsoulkeeper/ Youtube (watch pod vids here) - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIqvY3ftXO8-8poUuRYUZ8w Twitter - https://twitter.com/YMSoulKeeper Connect with James: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jamessabin13/ / https://www.instagram.com/edgestudentministries/ Instagram EDGE Students - https://www.instagram.com/edgestudentministries/ Youtube EDGE Students - https://www.youtube.com/@MinistryEDGEYouth Connect with Todd: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/toddpearage Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/toddpearage/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/toddpearage We would love to hear from you with questions and comments at the following email: ymsoulkeeper@gmail.com Check Out Coleader and plan your next month of ministry in just one click - https://www.coleader.co Sign-up for Coleader here: https://share.coleader.co/SikZuk/join Get help with the weekly grind with the help of Download Youth Ministry here - https://www.downloadyouthministry.com Youth Leader Summit Conferences: https://www.youthleadersummit.com/

